Dab tsi 'Bridgerton' Ua Tsis Zoo Txog Kev Sib Deev - thiab Vim Li Cas Nws Tseem Ceeb
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- Txoj hauv kev rho tawm tsis yog daim ntawv muaj txiaj ntsig ntawm kev tswj kev yug menyuam.
- Kev kuaj ntshav yuav tsis qhia koj yog tias koj cev xeeb tub.
- Koj yuav tsis yog lub sijhawm orgasm rau kev ua thawj zaug thawj zaug.
- Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hla pee tom qab kev sib deev.
- Koj yuav tsis muaj libido tib yam li koj tus khub - thiab qhov ntawd yog lawm.
- Kev sib deev tsis tas yuav mus ntawm 0 txog 100.
- Tej zaum koj yuav tsis orgasm nkaus xwb los ntawm kev nkag mus.
- Kev pom zoo yog qhov tseem ceeb.
- Ntsuam xyuas rau
Tsuas yog peb feeb rau thawj ntu ntawm Bridgerton, thiab koj tuaj yeem qhia koj tias koj nyob rau qhov kev kho mob ntsim. Thoob plaws hauv Shondaland's hit Netflix series, koj tau ntsib nrog cov romps nyob rau saum cov rooj ntoo ruaj khov, qhov ncauj sib deev ntawm tus ntaiv thiab hauv stairwells, thiab ntau pob tw.
Thiab thaum lub koob meej ua kom yuam kev kom cov neeg tuaj saib kub thiab ntxhov siab (lossis tsawg kawg, me ntsis lom zem nrog cov lus kub ntawm Regency era), nws tsis tas yuav piav txog kev sib deev hauv qhov tseeb tshaj plaws - lossis qhov tseeb - txoj kev. . Tau kawg, Bridgerton yeej tsis tau txhais hais tias yog ib chav kawm pw ua ke, tab sis rau qee tus neeg, nws zoo heev tuaj yeem ua haujlwm zoo ib yam. Tsuas yog 28 lub xeev thiab Koog Tsev Kawm Ntawv ntawm Columbia xav tau kev qhia txog poj niam txiv neej thiab kev kawm HIV hauv cov tsev kawm ntawv pej xeem, raws li lub koom haum Guttmacher, ib lub koom haum tshawb fawb thiab kev cai lij choj tau cog lus los txhawb kev sib deev thiab kev yug me nyuam thiab txoj cai. Ntawm cov xeev ntawd, tsuas yog 17 txoj haujlwm uas txoj kev kawm no raug kho mob tau zoo, raws li Lub Tsev Haujlwm. (Muaj feem cuam tshuam: Kev Kawm Kev Sib Deev Hauv Tebchaws Asmeskas Tau tawg - Txhawb Xav Kom Kho Nws)
Txhawm rau ua kom qhov sib txawv no paub, ntau txhiab xyoo tab tom hloov mus rau lawv lub TV. Ib daim ntawv ntsuam xyuas xyoo 2018 ntawm cov hnub nyoog 18 txog 29 xyoos pom tias feem coob ntawm cov neeg koom nrog tau txais lawv feem ntau ntawm kev kawm kev sib deev los ntawm qhov lawv pom hauv TV lossis kawm paub txog los ntawm kev coj noj coj ua. Janielle Bryan, M.P.H., tus kws kho mob pej xeem thiab kws qhia txog poj niam txiv neej hais tias "Kev kawm tej zaum yuav tsis nyob txhua qhov chaw, tab sis kev tshaj xov xwm yeej yog," said Janielle Bryan, M.P.H. "Rau qee cov menyuam yaus thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas, qhov ntawd tsuas yog kev sib deev xwb uas lawv tau txais, yog li qhov tseeb nws yog, qhov kev kawm ntau dua - thiab thaum kuv hais txog kev kawm, kuv tsis txhais hais tias tho txawv - qhov zoo dua. ntau yam, thiab qhov ntawd suav nrog hauv kev sib deev ed. "
Qhov ntawd tsis tau hais tias koj yuav tsum tshem tawm Bridgerton - Kev lossis lwm yam uas tsis yog qhov tseeb tau ntxim hlub - los ntawm koj cov kab Netflix nkaus xwb. Hloov chaw, coj cov xwm txheej phem uas koj pom nrog cov ntsev ntsev. Jack Pearson, Ph.D., kws tshaj lij kho mob hauv tsev ntawm Natural Cycles hais tias "Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev kom nco qab qhov no yog kev sib deev." "Kuv xav tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom lees paub tias kev sib deev hauv lub neej yog ntau dua [tsis meej pem] ... thiab kuv yuav tsis siv nws los ua lub hauv paus rau kev sib piv txhua. Koj yuav tsum tau txais kev tshoov siab los ntawm nws, tab sis tsis tas yuav siv nws los txiav txim siab koj tus kheej li cas koj tab tom ua hauv chav pw. "
Lwm zaus koj hunker cia rau binge-saib cov yeeb yam raunchiest ntawm lub xyoo - txawm tias nws yog rau koj thawj zaug los yog koj thib plaub - khaws cov tsis raug thiab unrealistic depictions ntawm kev sib deev hauv siab.
Txoj hauv kev rho tawm tsis yog daim ntawv muaj txiaj ntsig ntawm kev tswj kev yug menyuam.
Thaum ntxov ntawm lub caij, Simon Basset, tus zoo nraug thiab ntxim nyiam Duke of Hastings, cog lus tias yuav tsis muaj menyuam yaus rau nws txiv thiab ua tiav nws tsev neeg. Yog li ntawm qhov tos ntev ntev uas Simon thiab nws tus poj niam tshiab, Daphne Bridgerton, ua rau lawv txoj kev sib yuav, Duke rub tawm qhov uas yuav dhau los ua nws qhov kev kos npe txav mus rau lub caij nyoog: tshem nws tus qau los ntawm Daphne ib ntus ua ntej ejaculation.
Kev rub tawm tej zaum yuav yog ib qho kev lees paub ntawm kev tiv thaiv kev yug me nyuam rov qab rau xyoo 19th, tab sis Pearson hais tias nws tsis yog ib txoj kev tiv thaiv zoo los ntawm cov qauv niaj hnub no. "Sperm tuaj yeem muaj nyob rau hauv pre-cum, thiab yog tias muaj, muaj lub caij nyoog uas cev xeeb tub yuav tshwm sim," nws piav qhia. "[Qhov no tseem tuaj yeem tshwm sim] yog tias tus txiv neej tsis rub tawm nrawm txaus thiab nws yeej tau ejaculate tag nrho lossis ib feem ntawm cov phev rau poj niam."
Qhov tseeb, kwv yees li 22 tawm ntawm txhua 100 tus neeg uas siv txoj hauv kev thim rov qab cev xeeb tub txhua xyoo, raws li Lub Chaw Haujlwm Saib Xyuas Poj Niam Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv. (Yog, qhov ntawd zoo heev.) Yog li yog tias koj tab tom sim tiv thaiv cev xeeb tub, tham nrog koj tus kws kho mob txog lwm yam kev tswj hwm kev yug menyuam uas tau ua pov thawj kom muaj txiaj ntsig ntau dua, xws li cov cuab yeej siv hauv tsev, tiv thaiv qhov ncauj, qhov chaw mos, lossis daim tawv nqaij thaj ua rau thaj.
Kev kuaj ntshav yuav tsis qhia koj yog tias koj cev xeeb tub.
Tsis ntev tom qab Marina Thompson tuaj txog ntawm Featherington lub tsev, nws tau pom kev khawb nws cov nplooj ntawv hauv kev tshawb ntshav, ib qho kos npe rau nws lub sijhawm tau tuaj txog ib hmos. Hmoov tsis zoo rau cov neeg tuaj tshiab hauv nroog, Marina cov ntawv tau dawb zoo li cov daus poob tshiab, uas, xyoo 1813, tau suav tias yog qhov qhia tau tseeb tias nws cev xeeb tub.
Tab sis kev mus ntsib tus phauj Flo tsis tuaj yeem txhais tau tias koj "nrog menyuam yaus," raws li Marina hais. Pearson hais tias "Txhua tus neeg uas muaj lub voj voog yuav ua rau muaj kev coj khaub ncaws tsis xwm yeem ib ntus, yog li dhia mus rau qhov kev txiav txim siab yog tias koj tsis tau ntshav ntau dua plaub lub lis piam tuaj yeem ua rau koj poob siab vim tsis muaj laj thawj," Pearson hais. "Qhov tseeb, Natural Cycle txoj kev tshawb fawb nrog University College London, uas tau saib ntau dua 600,000 txoj kev mus, pom tias tsuas yog ib ntawm yim tus poj niam tau ntsib 28-hnub ncig." Txawm hais tias muaj mob hnyav xws li polycystic zes qe menyuam syndrome, endometriosis, thiab fibroids tuaj yeem ncua koj lub sijhawm, txawm tias kev hloov pauv me me rau koj txoj kev noj qab haus huv, xws li poob phaus, ua kom koj lub cev qoj ib ce, lossis cuam tshuam nrog kev ntxhov siab tuaj yeem cuam tshuam koj lub voj voog, raws li Cleveland. Clinic.
Tsis hais, nws muaj peev xwm ntsib teeb pom ntshav los yog pom ntxov thaum thawj peb lub hlis twg, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum lub qe fertilized thawj zaug txuas rau ntawm phab ntsa ntawm lub tsev menyuam (aka implantation), yog tias koj muaj kev sib deev, tau tsim kev kis mob, lossis koj cov tshuaj hormones yog fluctuating, raws li US National Library of Medicine. Ntxiv rau qhov tseeb tias qee qhov ntawm lwm qhov cim qhia ntxov ntawm cev xeeb tub tuaj yeem zoo ib yam li PMS cov tsos mob - suav nrog xeev siab, nkees, thiab mob lub mis - thiab nws tuaj yeem nyuaj qhia yog tias koj cev xeeb tub lossis tsis yog raws li kev paub lossis lub sijhawm taug qab ib leeg , hais tias Pearson. "Tab sis kev xeem cev xeeb tub thiab sim pom koj tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem tau txais koj cov lus teb meej nyob ntawd," nws hais ntxiv.
Koj yuav tsis yog lub sijhawm orgasm rau kev ua thawj zaug thawj zaug.
Tsis ntev tom qab Simon qhia Daphne txog kev xyiv fab ntawm kev kov koj tus kheej ntawm koj txhais ceg, yav tom ntej Duchess pw ntawm nws lub txaj rau kev tshawb fawb me ntsis. Thiab nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm ntawm khiav nws tus ntiv tes nce nws calathea thiab nyob rau hauv nws nightgown, nws climaxes thawj zaug.
IRL, koj thawj zaug sim nrog kev txiav txim siab yuav tsis zoo li Daphne. Bryan hais tias "Txhua tus neeg txawv, thiab txhua tus lub cev sib txawv," "Kuv yuav tsis hais tias nws yuav tsis tshwm sim sai li sai tau, tab sis yog tias ib tug neeg masturbating thawj zaug, nws feem ntau yog nyob ntawm seb lawv nyob li cas nrog lawv lub cev thiab lawv paub ntau npaum li cas txog lawv tus kheej."
Tias yog vim li cas Bryan qhia cov neeg ntawm txhua lub hnub nyoog khaws lub iav tsom iav thiab muab lawv thaj chaw hauv qab kom zoo, nyuaj saib ua ntej yuav mus ntawm koj tus kheej. Los ntawm kev siv sijhawm los kawm koj lub cev - suav nrog txhua qhov chaw ntawm koj lub qhov ncauj nyob thiab lawv zoo li cas - koj yuav tsis tau khawb ib ncig ntawm kev tshawb fawb ntawm clitoris thiab lwm qhov chaw zoo. thaum koj tab tom sim txhawb koj tus kheej. Qhov tshwm sim tshwm sim: Os sai dua thiab muaj zog dua, hais tias Bryan.
Rau cov ntaub ntawv, nws yog qhov ib txwm ua rau tus kheej thiab tsis nce siab ntxiv, ntxiv Bryan. Nws hais tias "Txawm tias thaum koj muaj kev paub ntau ntxiv nrog koj tus kheej, qee zaum nws tsuas yog tsis yog hnub ntawd," nws hais. "Qhov ntawd yog yam ntawm lub cev: Lawv ua txhua yam lawv xav ua. Nws tsis tau txhais hais tias thawj zaug [koj masturbate] koj yuav tau txais orgasm, thiab nws tsis tau txhais hais tias lub thib kaum lub sij hawm koj yuav tau ib tug orgasm. "
Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hla pee tom qab kev sib deev.
Cov neeg tuaj saib * thev naus laus zis * yeej tsis pom cov cim 'tom qab sib sau ua ke, tab sis nws muaj kev nyab xeeb xav tias lawv yuav tsis tsoo chav dej tam sim tom qab ua kev hlub. Tab sis ua li ntawd yog lub tswv yim tseem ceeb txhawm rau tiv thaiv kab mob tso zis (UTI), uas tuaj yeem txhim kho thaum cov kab mob nkag mus rau hauv koj lub zais zis, raws li OWH.
Nov yog qhov nws ua haujlwm li cas: Thaum sib deev thiab lwm yam frisky, tsis muaj ris tsho, cov kab mob ntawm qhov chaw mos thiab qhov quav tuaj yeem hloov mus rau hauv cov zis (lub raj ntawm lub zais zis uas tso zis tawm ntawm koj lub cev). Nyob ntawd, nws tuaj yeem sib kis thiab ua rau mob, uas tuaj yeem ua rau mob lossis kub hnyiab thaum tso zis thiab xav kom tso zis ntau zaus (txawm tias tsis tso zis ntau npaum li cas los xij) - cov lus qhia ntawm UTI, raws li OWH. Hloov pauv, Daphne qhia Simon nws "hlawv" rau nws ua ntej lawv dhia txhua tus pob txha thawj zaug yog qhov ua rau pom kev me ntsis.
Uas tau hais tias, peeing tom qab pw ua ke tuaj yeem pab tiv thaiv UTIs, raws li kev tshawb fawb luam tawm hauv Phau ntawv Journal of Clinical Epidemiology. Qhov tseeb, ib qho kev tshawb fawb cais tau pom tias rau lub hlis tom qab cov poj niam sib deev tau tsim lawv thawj UTI, qhov tshwm sim ntawm tus kab mob thib ob tau qis dua ntawm cov neeg uas qhia txog kev tso zis tom qab kev sib deev. “Kev tso zis tom qab kev sib deev tsuas yog pab tshem tawm cov urethra, qhov twg cov quav tawm tuaj, "Pearson piav qhia."Nws tsuas yog pab txhua tus kab mob uas tej zaum yuav tau thawb tawm tuaj." (Muaj feem cuam tshuam: Koj Puas Muaj Kev Sib Deev nrog UTI?)
Tej yam ua yuam kev. Ib qho yuam kev tau tshwm sim thiab koj nkag tsis tau xa. Thov sim dua.Koj yuav tsis muaj libido tib yam li koj tus khub - thiab qhov ntawd yog lawm.
Txhawm rau muab nws yooj yim, Simon thiab Daphne mus ntawm nws zoo li luav thoob plaws lawv lub sijhawm honeymoon. Thiab hauv txhua qhov kev sib deev ntsib kev ua yeeb yam piav qhia, ob lub Duke thiab Duchess tau sib npaug sib npaug thiab npaj txhij mus rau kev lag luam. Spoiler: Qhov kev sib tw no tau ua hauv libido saum ntuj ceeb tsheej tsis yog ib yam uas tshwm sim ntau dhau hauv lub neej tiag tiag - thiab qhov ntawd tsis ua li cas, Bryan hais.
"Kev sib deev pib hauv lub siab, yog li yog tias koj ntxhov siab txog qee yam, uas tuaj yeem pov tawm libido," nws piav qhia. "Thiab yog tias koj tsis hais [koj qhov kev hloov pauv hauv libido] rau koj tus khub, lawv tsuas yog sim dhia koj cov pob txha, nws yuav tsis mus zoo li nws ua hauv Bridgerton.”
Nws tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias yog tias koj tsis tu ncua nyob rau hauv lub siab thaum koj tus khub npaj txhij mus frisky, nws tsis tau txhais hais tias koj tsis zoo siab rau koj lub neej pw ua ke los yog koj SO, hais tias Bryan. Nws tau piav qhia "Qee tus neeg xav zoo li yog tias koj tsis lees txais kev sib deev, koj tsis lees txais lawv, thiab qhov ntawd tsis yog," nws piav qhia. "Koj tuaj yeem hlub koj tus khub, saib xyuas koj tus khub, nyiam kev sib deev rau koj tus khub, thiab cov kev hloov hauv koj libido tsis hloov qhov ntawd. Nws tsis yog hais txog lawv - nws yog qhov ua nws tus kheej. "
Txhawm rau xyuas kom koj thiab koj nkawm niam txiv nyob ntawm tib nplooj ntawv, ceeb toom lawv tias lawv tsis yog qhov teeb meem, tom qab ntawd pib sib tham nrog lawv txog dab tsi yog * tiag tiag * tuav koj rov qab, hais tias Bryan. Piav txhua yam uas tshwm sim hauv koj lub taub hau uas hloov koj lub siab tuaj yeem pab koj thiab koj tus khub nrhiav txoj hauv kev los ua haujlwm los ntawm koj cov teeb meem, uas tuaj yeem pab koj kom koj libido rov qab los rau koj li qub, nws hais. (Muaj feem cuam tshuam: Nkag siab 2 Hom Hom Kev Sib Deev Yuav Pab Koj Zoo Li Kev Tswj Koj Li Libido)
Kev sib deev tsis tas yuav mus ntawm 0 txog 100.
Bridgerton tus cov phiaj xwm tuaj yeem txav mus qeeb, tab sis kev sib deev scenes paub tseeb tias nrawm - nrawm heev uas Simon thiab Daphne feem ntau hla qhov kev xav ua ntej thiab dhia ncaj kom nkag mus. Lub duo tej zaum yuav tau aroused txaus kom yooj yim tau nws ntawm kwv yees li tsib vib nas this tom qab hnia, tab sis rau qhov nruab nrab saib, yuav tsum tau ib lub sij hawm sov so ntev dua.
Bryan hais tias "Kuv feem ntau hais tias lub cev sib deev loj tshaj yog nyob nruab nrab ntawm koj lub pob ntseg," "Yog li yog tias koj tsis muaj lub siab xav, koj yuav tsis ua rau lub cev muaj zog, thiab nws tuaj yeem ua rau tsis xis nyob vim tias koj lub cev tsis tsim cov roj nplua nyeem [ntawm qhov taw tes]. Muaj lub caij nyoog zoo yog tias koj tsis tau txais kev tshoov siab, kev nkag mus yuav mob heev vim [koj qhov chaw mos] yuav qhuav. " (Tom qab tag nrho, Daphne thiab Simon tsis muaj lub tshuab tso rau ntawm lawv lub rooj saum txaj.)
Kev siv ob peb feeb ntxiv ntawm kev ua si tuaj yeem ua rau koj lub hlwb thiab lub cev npaj rau txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb. Ntxiv rau, kev saib ua ntej tuaj yeem pab tau yog tias koj koom nrog tus khub tshiab thiab tseem tab tom sim kawm ib leeg lub cev, nyiam, thiab tsis nyiam, hais tias Bryan. "Vim hais tias foreplay feem ntau mus qeeb me ntsis, koj tuaj yeem sib tham thiab coj koj tus khub ua ntej koj nkag mus," nws piav qhia.
Tej zaum koj yuav tsis orgasm nkaus xwb los ntawm kev nkag mus.
Los ntawm skimping ntawm lub foreplay, nws kuj tseem zoo li Daphne plam tawm ntawm kev ua tiav Os loj uas Duke thiaj li tsis tu ncua los ntawm PIV nkaus. ICYDK, peb feem plaub ntawm cov txiv neej hais tias lawv qhov siab tshaj plaws yuav luag txhua zaus lawv sib deev, piv rau 28 feem pua ntawm cov poj niam, raws li kev tshawb fawb Lovehoney ntawm 4,400 tus neeg. Dab tsi ntxiv, tsuas yog 18.4 feem pua ntawm cov poj niam tshawb fawb tau tshaj tawm tias kev sib deev ib leeg yog "txaus" txaus rau orgasm, raws li kev tshawb fawb ntau dua 1,000 tus poj niam luam tawm hauv Phau ntawv Journal ntawm Kev Sib Deev & Kev Sib Yuav.
Yog li cas ua tau ib co poj niam tawm? Clitoral stimulation, txawm los ntawm lawv tus kheej lossis los ntawm lawv tus khub, thiab kev sib deev hauv qhov ncauj, raws li kev soj ntsuam me me ntawm poj niam txiv neej sib deev - txav uas Daphne tsis tshua pom tshwm sim thaum sib deev, yog li tsis muaj poj niam orgasms tshwm sim hauv koob. (Qhov tseeb tias qhov sib txawv orgasm tseem nyob hauv erotica loj heev rau cov poj niam yog ib qho loj ol' xyu.)
Thiab ib sab ntawm nws qhov kev xav ntawm tus kheej, tsuas yog lub sijhawm nws zoo li zoo li Daphne tau muaj kev sib deev tiag tiag yog thaum lub sijhawm sib tham zaum kawg, lub sijhawm tom qab lawv pom zoo nyob ua ke thiab tsim tsev neeg. Raws li lub suab nrov nrov nce mus, ob peb zoo li nce siab ntawm * pes tsawg * tib lub sijhawm. Nws yog tag nrho ua tau kom ua tiav qhov elusive ib txhij orgasm IRL, tab sis nws yuav tsum tau siv me ntsis kev xyaum (tsuas yog nug tus kws sau ntawv no uas ua rau nws lub Xyoo Tshiab daws teeb meem). Ntxiv rau, nws tsis zoo li nws yuav tshwm sim tom qab 20 vib nas this ntawm kev sib zog. Raws li kev tshawb fawb Lovehoney, nyob rau hauv ib nrab ntawm cov kev sib koom orgasm, ib tug neeg nyiam mus txog lawv "qhov taw tes" thiab yuav tsum tau tos rau lawv tus khub kom ntes tau. TL; DR: Koj thiab koj tus khub koom nrog kev sib deev yuav siv sijhawm ntev me ntsis kom ua tiav zoo dua li Duke thiab Duchess '.
Kev pom zoo yog qhov tseem ceeb.
Tsis ntev tom qab Daphne pom tias cev xeeb tub tshwm sim li cas thiab tias Simon * tuaj yeem* muaj menyuam (nws tsuas yog tsis xav tau), nws txuas ntxiv los tsim ib qho ntawm cov xwm txheej tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm koob: Mid-intercourse, Duchess hoists Nws tus kheej nyob rau sab saum toj ntawm Simon cowgirl-style thiab, txoj cai thaum nws tab tom yuav ejaculation, tsis kam cia nws rub tawm - nws mus rau txoj kev tiv thaiv kab mob. Ib pliag tom qab, nws yws, "Koj tuaj yeem ua li cas?"
Thaum Ximoos pom zoo rau kev sib deev, nws tau ua tsis pom zoo los hauv Daphne, hais tias Bryan. Nco ntsoov, Daphne paub nws tsis xav muaj menyuam (txawm tsis yog vim li cas tiag). Thiab txawm tias Duke tsis tau hais tawm tshwj xeeb, "Tsis yog, nres," nws ua hais tias, "tos, tos, Daphne," thiab saib tsis meej txog qhov tsis tuaj yeem thim tau. "Yog li thaum Simon tsis muab nws cov ntaub ntawv txaus [txog qhov kev xaiv no kom tsis muaj menyuam] los txiav txim siab paub, tsis muaj leej twg tso cai ua txhaum koj ib puag ncig tsuas yog vim nws tsis ua haujlwm rau lawv," Bryan hais. Kev Pom Zoo, Tiag? Ntxiv, Yuav Ua Li Cas thiab Thaum Twg Nug Nws)
Thaum muaj kev sib deev, kev thov kev tso cai tsis tu ncua yog qhov tseem ceeb. Nug koj tus khub yog tias lawv tsis txaus siab rau txoj cai ua ntej koj pib, thiab thaum koj txuas ntxiv txhawb koj qhov kev sim siab, kos nrog lawv kom paub tseeb tias lawv xav mus ntxiv, Bryan hais. "Peb kuj hais ntau dua nrog peb lub cev dua li peb cov lus, yog li yog tias thaum twg los xij thaum sib deev koj tau txais lus lub cev lossis lub ntsej muag qhia tias lwm tus neeg tsis xis nyob, kos rau hauv," nws hais. Thiab yog tias lawv tsis muab kev txaus siab rau koj "yog" - lub ntsiab lus lawv hais tias "Kuv tsis paub tseeb" lossis "qhov no tsis xav tias yog" - nres koj cov dej num nyob ntawd, ntxiv Bryan. Nco ntsoov: Koj lossis koj tus khub muaj peev xwm thim qhov kev pom zoo txhua lub sijhawm. (Thiab nws ib txwm yog lub tswv yim zoo los txheeb xyuas tom qab pw ua ke-aka aftercare-los tham txog txhua yam uas tau ua lossis tsis mus zoo thiab koj ob leeg xav li cas txog yam khoom.)