Puas yog ib txwm muaj kev sib tsoo ntawm koj tus kws qhia?

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Luv teb: Yog, kinda. Qhov tseeb, thaum kuv nug Rachel Sussman, tus kws kho mob muaj ntawv tso cai kho mob thiab kev sib raug zoo thiab tus kws sau ntawv Phau Vajlugkub Qub, txog qhov no, nws luag. Nws hais tias "Yog lawm, kuv tus muam tau nrog nws tus kws qhia ua haujlwm tau ntau xyoo," "Yog lawm, nws tshwm sim tiag tiag!"

Tseeb, koj kev sib raug zoo nrog tus kws qhia tus kheej yog tus kws tshaj lij. Tab sis nws yog intimate heev, Sussman hais. "Koj ob leeg hnav khaub ncaws ua haujlwm, nws lossis nws tau kov koj, nws lossis nws zoo li zoo nkauj ... Ntxiv rau, koj tab tom ua haujlwm, yog li koj cov endorphins tau nqus," nws sau. "Nws yog qhov nkag siab heev los txhim kho me ntsis crush." (Nov yog vim li cas koj thiab koj tus SO yuav tsum ua haujlwm ua ke.)

Nws tsis yog kev nyob ze ntawm lub cev uas yuav ua rau muaj kev xav. "Cov kws cob qhia feem ntau pom koj ntawm koj qhov kev pheej hmoo tshaj plaws, thiab nws yog lawv txoj haujlwm los xyuas koj thiab txhawb koj. Qhov ntawd tuaj yeem hnov ​​​​zoo," Gloria Petruzelli, tus kws kho mob muaj ntawv pov thawj kev ua si nawv hauv Sacramento, CA.

Kev sib tsoo me me tuaj yeem tsis muaj kev phom sij thiab tseem tuaj yeem txhawb koj kom ua raws koj cov kev tawm dag zog. Tab sis Sussman thiab Petruzelli pom zoo tias yuav tsum muaj kev noj qab haus huv ciam teb hauv kev sib raug zoo ntawm tus kws qhia-tus kws qhia. Yam tsawg kawg, hais tias Sussman, yog tias qhov kev nyiam zoo li yog kev sib koom, koj yuav tsum tham txog qhov ntawd txhais tau li cas, koj ob leeg xav tau dab tsi, thiab koj li kev sib raug zoo hauv haujlwm yuav xav hloov li cas. (Ua raws cov kws qhia noj zaub mov zoo ntawm Instagram.)

Petruzzelli hais tias hauv nws qhov kev xav, tus kws qhia sib tham nrog tus neeg siv khoom tsis raug cai. "Muaj lub zog sib txawv hauv qhov kev sib raug zoo-tus kws qhia muaj hwj chim ntau dua," nws hais. Tus kws qhia uas txav chaw yam tsis tham txog nws ua ntej, lossis qhia koj pom tus kws qhia tshiab, yuav tsum tsa tus chij liab.

Tab sis yog tias koj tsuas yog nyob rau hauv tus cwj pwm poob rau txhua tus kws qhia koj ntsib, koj tuaj yeem ua tau yooj yim. Nws tshwm sim, thiab nws zoo. Yog tias tsuas yog rau-pob tau yooj yim thiaj ntes tau.

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