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• Muaj Kev Sib Deev Ib Qhov Chaw Tsis Zoo
• Ua Tus Thawj Coj
• Muaj Kev Sib Deev nrog Lwm Tus Tshiab
• Qhov ncauj deev
• Txuas Thaum Sib Deev
• Ntsuam xyuas rau

Peb ua lub ntsiab lus ntawm tsis txhob tham txog peb txoj kev npau suav-thiab qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws los txog kev sib deev. Tab sis yog hais tias peb tau divulge peb sab saum toj ntawm-cov-phau ntawv fantasies, peb cov phooj ywg yuav to taub-lawv tej zaum yuav muaj tib yam. Hauv kev tshawb fawb tsis ntev los no ntawm 1,516 tus neeg laus, cov kws tshawb fawb los ntawm University of Quebec pom tias ntau qhov kev xav ntawm kev sib deev muaj ntau dua li qhov kev xav yav dhau los. Ntawm no, tsib lub siab nyiam cov poj niam feem ntau lees paub, nrog rau cov kws tshaj lij cov lus qhia txog yuav ua li cas coj mus rau kev sim tsav lub neej tiag tiag.

Muaj Kev Sib Deev Ib Qhov Chaw Tsis Zoo

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Qhov kev xav no tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo mus ntev, hais tias Laura Berman, Ph.D., tus kws kho mob kev sib deev thiab kev sib raug zoo thiab Durex tus kws tshaj lij kev sib deev hauv zej zog. Tias yog vim sim ua dab tsi tshiab-seb qhov ntawd txhais tau tias mus rau qhov sib txawv-ntau dua li ib txwm brunch chaw lossis mus tsis khoom sab nraum chav pw-ua tau tiag txhawb cov dopamine chaw ntawm lub hlwb, pab txhawb kev xav ntawm kev lom zem thiab zoo siab.

Sim nws: Qhov chaw phem tshaj los ntsuas koj tus txiv neej txoj kev xav txog kev dag nyob ib puag ncig tom qab ntawm cov yeeb yaj kiab ua yeeb yam yog thaum lub teeb pib tsaus ntuj, hais Berman. Nqa nws thaum lub sijhawm nruab nrab (nyeem: tsis yog thaum koj sib deev lossis hauv koj qhov chaw nyiam xaiv), thiab npaj los sib tham. Tej zaum nws yuav ntxub koj lub tswv yim ntawm kev sib deev hauv lub tiaj ua si pej xeem, piv txwv li, tab sis qhib siab mus rau ntawm nws tus kheej ntawm koj lub tiaj nraum qaum tsev, hais tias Berman.

Ua Tus Thawj Coj

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Tsib caug ntxoov Grey tsis tau pib lub teb chaws txoj kev xav nrog BDSM-nws tsuas yog ua lag luam rau nws. "Cov poj niam niaj hnub no sib cav ntau yam txhua txhua hnub, tias lub tswv yim muab kev tswj hwm rau lwm tus-thiab tsis yog li ntawd, tab sis ib tus neeg uas paub yuav ua dab tsi nrog kev tswj hwm-tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo," Berman hais.

Sim nws: Raws li nrog rau pej xeem kev sib deev, BDSM tsis yog ib yam dab tsi los sim tawm ntawm lub siab nyiam. Ua ntej, nug koj tus txiv neej li cas nws xav tias koom nrog qee qhov kev ua qhev lossis kev hais lus qias neeg rau hauv koj li niaj zaus. Yog tias nws nyob hauv nkoj, taug kev nws hla koj qhov xwm txheej zoo tshaj plaws. Ntau tus txiv neej yuav tsis kam ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv chav pw, yog li cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb tuaj yeem pab tau, sau Berman. Tseem ceeb heev: xaiv lo lus nyab xeeb ua ntej koj pib. (Cov poj niam tsis yog tib leeg lees rau BDSM kev npau suav. Nws yog ib qho ntawm 5 Tus Txiv Neej Ua Yeeb Yam Zoo Nkauj Uas Yog Tiag Tiag Tiag Muaj Ntau Yam.)

Muaj Kev Sib Deev nrog Lwm Tus Tshiab

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Berman hais tias nws yog qhov ib txwm ua rau xav tau yam tsawg kawg ntawm qee qib sib txawv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tau nrog koj tus txiv neej tau ntau xyoo. Txawm hais tias tib neeg tej zaum yuav raug programmed rau monogamy, lub siab xav hloov ntawm scenery tsis txawv txav.

Sim nws: Berman tsis pom zoo ua tau nrog txiv neej pw nrog lwm tus khub, txawm tias koj qhov tseem ceeb yog nyob hauv nkoj. Nws hais tias "Nws qhib lub thawv Pandora," nws hais. "Ib tug yuav tsum muaj kev khib lossis tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb." Hloov chaw, sim ua yeeb yam. Kom koj tus txiv leej tub-nyob rau hauv lub luag hauj lwm ntawm ib tug neeg txawv teb chaws- tuaj tos koj nyob rau hauv ib lub zos bar, los yog hais kom nws hnav ib tug wig los yog costume rau txaj. Sim ua txoj haujlwm tshiab-rau-koj, ua porn thaum koj dag ib puag ncig, lossis siv cov khoom ua si sib deev thaum ua haujlwm kuj tseem tuaj yeem ua tiav koj lub siab xav hloov pauv.

Qhov ncauj deev

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Txawm hais tias pom nws tau ntxim hlub, "qhov txaus ntshai ntawm cov neeg tsis xis nyob nrog kev sib deev hauv qhov ncauj," hais Berman. Lawv puas txhawj xeeb txog lawv cov txheej txheem (yog tias lawv yog tus ua yeeb yam) lossis kev ntxhov siab txog lawv qhov kev nplij siab tseem ceeb (puas yog nws lub puab tsaig nkees? Kuv puas hnov ​​tsw zoo? Kuv puas siv sijhawm ntev?).

Sim nws: Yog tias kev txhawj xeeb dhau tsis "ua nws raug" yog tuav koj rov qab, Berman qhia yooj yim saib online qhia-koj yuav xav tias ruam, tab sis qhov no, kev paub yog koj li riam phom zoo tshaj. Yog tias koj txhawj xeeb txog qhov tau txais qhov kawg, ntawm qhov tod tes, sim menyuam cov kauj ruam. "Pib los ntawm kev hais kom nws nqis los rau koj li peb feeb xwb. Lwm zaus, sim tsib," nws piav qhia. Tom qab ntawd tsom mus rau nyob twj ywm hauv lub sijhawm kom txog thaum lub sijhawm dhau mus. Tsuas yog qhia nws txog kev sim ua ntej, lossis nws yuav xav tias nws ua qee yam uas koj tsis nyiam thaum koj txwv nws, ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab rau nws.

Txuas Thaum Sib Deev

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Cov poj niam feem ntau fantasy yog ib qho ntawm qhov tsawg tshaj plaws risqué ntawm cov npe-xav kom hnov ​​​​kev xav romantic thaum muaj kev sib deev. Berman hais tias "Nws tseem ceeb npaum li cas kev sib txuas ntawm kev xav yog kev sib raug zoo," "Vim tias kuv tuaj yeem muab rau koj 365 yam los sim ua rau koj lub neej kev sib deev, tab sis yog tias koj thiab koj tus khub tsis muaj qhov kev siv zog sab hauv, tsis muaj dab tsi yuav ua haujlwm."

Sim nws: Txhawm rau kom muaj kev xav nyob ze nrog tus phooj ywg pw, sim cov tswv yim kev sib deev tantric, uas hais txog tapping rau hauv qhov kev xav, qhia Berman. Ib qho kev tawm dag zog yooj yim: Zaum ntsej muag txhais ceg rau koj tus khub, tom qab ntawd tso koj txhais tes xis hla nws lub siab. Thaum saib mus rau ib leeg ob lub qhov muag, synchronize koj ua pa rau nws. Berman hais tias "Qhov no pab koj nruab nrab, kho lub ntiaj teb tag nrho, thiab tsim kev sib zog ntxiv ntawm koj ua ntej koj dhau los ua lub cev," Berman hais.

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