Kuv sim Reddit cov lus qhia txog kev sib deev zoo tshaj plaws - thiab nws yog qhov zoo xav tsis thoob
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- Redefine da dej pw
- Ntim Hnab Rau Poj Niam Zoo
- Xav Tau Ntau Cov Lus Qhia Txog Kev Sib Deev?
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Poob hauv Reddit luav qhov thiab koj tau nyem deb ntawm txhua yam koj xav paub txog kev tu tawv nqaij, pw tsaug zog, cev xeeb tub, thiab (koj yuav xav tsis thoob los kawm) kev sib deev!
Tau kawg, koj tsis tuaj yeem ntseeg txhua yam koj nyeem online thiab Reddit kev sib deev tsis raug saib xyuas kom raug - "Tsis muaj kev ua txhaum rau Reddit, Kuv nyiam lub xaib, tab sis nws tuaj yeem ua rau yug me nyuam rau cov neeg uas xav tias lawv paub txhua yam, "hais Lisa Finn, tus kws qhia txog kev sib deev ntawm kev sib deev khoom ua si emporium Babeland - tab sis qhov ntawd tsis tau txhais hais tias qhov chaw nyiam tshaj plaws no tsis muaj qee lub pov haum.
Yog li kuv tau khiav ob peb lub tswv yim txog kev sib deev los ntawm Finn thiab Lateef Taylor, tus kws qhia txog poj niam txiv neej thiab tus neeg tawm tswv yim txog kev sib deev, thiab nrog lawv kev pom zoo, kuv tau muab lawv sim rau kuv tus kheej.
Scroll cia mus nyeem txog plaub ntawm cov lus qhia kev sib deev zoo tshaj plaws uas kuv pom ntawm Reddit - thiab dab tsi tshwm sim thaum (kuv tus khub thiab) kuv sim lawv.
Masturbate Nrog Koj Tus khub
Ib tus neeg siv Reddit tau coj mus rau hauv online hub kom paub seb lwm tus neeg (nrog rau nws thiab nws tus poj niam) pom kev sib deev masturbation tej yam yees siv. Tsuas yog tsib hnub xwb, ntau tshaj 2,500 tus neeg tau txais kev tshaj tawm kom cia nws nyiam nws, thiab.
"Kuv pom qhov sib qhia sib ze ntawm ib yam dab tsi yog li tus kheej txaus siab rau nws tus kheej," sau thawj daim ntawv loj loj (OP). "Nws ncaj ncees zoo heev thiab kuv pom tias nws muaj kev sib raug zoo tiag tiag!" hais tias lwm tus neeg siv. Ib tus neeg hais lus uas muaj mob hnyav sau tseg kev sib deev yog "godsend" thaum lawv raug mob: "Kuv [tuaj yeem] nyob nyab xeeb hauv qab kuv lub ncoo cua sov thiab so hauv qhov nook ntawm kuv tus txiv txhais tes thiab xav tias muaj kev sib raug zoo tiag tiag."
Nws yog dab tsi txog kev sib deev masturbation uas ua rau nws zoo li cov Redditters hais tias nws yog? "Raws li ib haiv neeg, kev txiav txim siab tus kheej tseem taboo zoo nkauj. Nws yog qee yam uas tau xav tias ua tiav hauv tus kheej lossis tsis yog txhua qhov," piav qhia Finn. Kev sib koom nrog tus khub tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev phom sij tiag tiag rau qee tus, "thiab qhov kev sib koom ua ke tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev sib raug zoo heev," nws hais.
Taylor hais ntxiv tias "Nws yog kev kawm paub ntau yam," "Koj tau saib thiab kawm seb koj tus khub nyiam li cas kom kov." Tej zaum koj ib txwm txav koj cov ntiv tes ib sab-rau-sab thaum lawv kov lawv tus kheej siv lub voj voog, lossis tej zaum koj tuav lub vibrator ntawm lawv qhov hotspot, thaum lawv nyiam tuav nws mus rau sab, hais Taylor. Koj tuaj yeem siv tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv no kom zoo siab rau koj tus khub hauv kab. (Muaj feem xyuam: 13 Lub Tswv Yim Ua Kom Lub Siab Txaus Siab)
KUV ntseeg heev los muab cov lus qhia no sim, Kuv rub tawm ib qho ntawm kuv lub vibrator tshiab uas kuv nyiam, thiab kuv tus khub rub tawm lub lube. Tom qab ntawd, peb suav nrog Bryson Tiller thiab txuas mus kov peb tus kheej, ua ke. Thiab tsev neeg, cia kuv qhia koj: Nws yog kev sib raug zoo thiab H-OT raws li Reddit cov neeg siv yuav muaj koj ntseeg. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj qhov muag pom…
Koom Nrog Hauv Kev Kho Mob
Yog tias koj kis mus rau BDSM txwv rauTsib caug ntxoov Grey, tej zaum koj yuav xav tias lub hwj chim ua si tsuas yog mob, nplawm, floggers, lossis handcuffs. Tab sis muaj lwm yam uas koj tsis pom; "aftercare" yog ib yam dab tsi (lub luag haujlwm) BDSM cov kws kho mob ua tom qab kev sib deev lossis ib qho chaw thiab, raws li qee tus neeg siv Reddit, nws yog ib yam uas txhua tus (kinky lossis tsis) yuav tsum ua. (Related: Phau Ntawv Qhia Beginners rau BDSM).
Dab tsi yog aftercare, raws nraim? Ib tus neeg siv Reddit piav qhia txog kev saib xyuas tom qab zoo li, "ua qab zib thiab ntxim nyiam thiab sib tham nrog lwm tus tom qab sib deev. lwm tus txhais caj npab lossis tuav tes. Lwm lub sijhawm, qhwv ib leeg hauv daim pam lossis rub ib leeg thaum sib tham. "
Finn hais tias qhov ntawd ntau dua lossis tsawg dua, ntxiv tias kev saib xyuas tom qab yog hais txog kom ntseeg tau tias koj thiab koj tus hlub muaj kev nyab xeeb, hwm, saib xyuas, thiab xis nyob. "Thaum nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau qhov hnyav dua lossis hnyav dua BDSM scenes, nws kuj tseem tuaj yeem siv tom qab vanilla sib deev (txawm li cas los koj tau txhais qhov ntawd)," nws hais, pom zoo tias kev saib xyuas tom qab yog rau txhua tus.
Hauv qhov tseem ceeb, nws tsuas yog siv sijhawm ua ke tom qab kev sib deev, kov ib leeg kev hlub, thiab koom nrog qee qhov kev txheeb xyuas tom qab kev sib deev. Finn hais tias "Nws yog lub sijhawm zoo los tham txog yam koj nyiam, yam koj tsis nyiam, koj xav sim dua ntxiv, dab tsi zoo, lossis txawm tias nws ua rau koj xav li cas," Finn hais.
Raws li tus kheej lees paub ua haujlwm, nws tuaj yeem nyuaj rau kuv los ua lub sijhawm rau kev sib deev, cia nyob ib leeg tom qab kev sib deev cuddles. Kuv tuaj yeem sawv los koom nrog me ntsis ntxiv tom qab kev saib xyuas rau hauv kuv lub sijhawm sexy-tshwj xeeb yog xav txog kuv txoj kev hlub lus yog cov lus lees paub thiab kov lub cev. (Tsis paub meej txog koj tus khub txoj kev hlub lus? Ntawm no yog yuav tham txog nws li cas - thiab lwm yam kev sib tham rau lub neej kev sib deev noj qab haus huv.)
Ib Hnub Sunday tom qab toying ib puag ncig nrog qee cov khoom lag luam tshiab, kuv tus khub thiab kuv txiav txim siab muab ntau lub hom phiaj tom qab kev saib xyuas ib zaug. Peb siv sijhawm teev ua tsaug, sib tov, thiab hlub ib leeg. Raws li koj tau twv, nws yog romantic li shit thiab tiag tiag qhib qhov rooj rau peb tham txog peb ~ kev xav ~. Tsis tas li, kuv tau txais zaws, uas yog clutch.
Redefine da dej pw
Qhov kev pom zoo ntawm Redditors yog tias kev sib deev da dej yog, zoo, phem, thiab zoo tshaj plaws rau cov yeeb yaj kiab. "0/10 yuav pom zoo, Kuv nyob twj ywm hauv lub tsheb me me lossis pw nrog pw," sau ib qho Reddit. "Kuv ntshai rau kuv lub neej thaum kuv [pw ua ke] hauv da dej," sau lwm qhov.
Txawm hais tias qhov no zoo li universal stance tiv thaiv kev sib deev da dej, muaj tag nrho cov lus qhia txog kev ua kom nws zoo dua. (Related: A Sexologist's Top Tips for Making Shower Sex Amazing)
Xav txog kuv tus khub thiab kuv da dej ua ke tas li tab sis tsis tshua muaj kev koom nrog hanky-panky thaum nyob ntawd, peb txiav txim siab muab ib qho ntawm cov lus qhia sim: Hloov kev nkag mus da dej ua si nrog ua ntej.
Finn hais tias "Kev sib deev da dej, kub npaum li nws suab, tuaj yeem ua rau lub cev muaj se thiab txaus ntshai, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj kev nkag mus rau hauv," hais Finn. Thiab vim tias dej ntxuav tawm lub cev lub cev lub cev, kev nkag mus tuaj yeem ua rau tsis xis nyob, nws hais.
Tab sis "kev siv qhov chaw mos thiab qhov quav ntawm qhov quav tawm ntawm lub rooj tsis yog kev ntsuas kev nyab xeeb nkaus xwb," Taylor hais. "Nws tseem tso cai rau koj tshawb txog kev sib deev ntawm qhov ncauj, ua si vibrator, zaws, tsis cuam tshuam nrog kev sib deev tes, zaws, thiab lwm yam kev sib deev uas koj feem ntau yuav tsis pom." (Related: Qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab nyab xeeb da dej txoj hauj lwm sib deev).
Thawj zaug peb sim da dej "sib deev," peb nqa lub Wartenberg pinwheel (ICYDK, uas yog ib qho khoom ua si zoo siab). Nws lom zem heev, peb sim dua qhov ntawd tib hnub, tab sis kuj tau nqa lub vibrator tsis muaj dej. Qhov kev txiav txim zaum kawg? Kev sib deev da dej tsis yog kev sib deev yog txoj kev ua kom muaj zog dua li kev sib deev da dej.
Ntim Hnab Rau Poj Niam Zoo
Puas tau txhawj xeeb txog kev nug ib ntus ua ntej yog tias koj yuav siv hmo ntuj? Cov neeg siv Reddit muaj kev daws teeb meem: Ua kom me me ntawm cov khoom siv tu cev thiab kev sib deev uas koj xav tau rau ib hmos lossis romp tawm hauv tsev. (Related: Cov Lus Nug Kom Nug Ib Tug Ua Ntej Ua Ntej Nrog Lawv Sib Deev).
Hauv cov xov xwm kab mob, ntau dua 2,300 Reddit cov neeg siv tau coj mus rau cov lus qhia qhia txog dab tsi tau khaws cia hauv lawv lub hnab poj niam txiv neej. Thaum qee tus tsuas yog khaws cov khoom tu cev xws li ntxuav lub ntsej muag, deodorant, thiab txhuam hniav, lwm tus suav nrog cov ris tsho hauv qab, lube, thiab cov khoom ua si sib deev - tom qab uas Finn thiab Taylor xav tias zoo tshaj.
"Thaum twg koj yuav mus deev nrog ib tug neeg, koj xav kom muaj kev nyab xeeb ntawm kev sib deev khoom, cov khoom ua si sib deev, thiab lub cev uas yuav ua rau koj xav tias xis thiab txaus siab tshaj," hais Taylor, ntxiv tias qhov no tseem ceeb tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj muaj. txhua qhov ua xua rau cov khoom xyaw uas pom muaj nyob hauv cov roj lossis cov hnab looj tes. "Kev npaj tau zoo li no yuav tshem tawm ntau cov lus nug thiab tsis paub tseeb, uas tuaj yeem pab koj so kom txaus thiab yog li txaus siab rau qhov kev paub ntau dua," Taylor hais.
Txawm hais tias ntau tus neeg siv Reddit khaws lawv cov hnab nrog txiv neej pw hauv lawv lub tsheb, Finn sau tseg tias cov hnab looj tes thiab cov roj ntsha tuaj yeem raug puas tsuaj los ntawm huab cua kub. "Lub raj mis yas feem ntau cov roj nplua nyeem tau khaws cia hauv qhov pib tawg ntawm tshav kub, thiab yog li cov latex hauv hnab looj tes tuaj yeem ua tau," nws hais. Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj nyob ib qho chaw sov, nco ntsoov hloov lub hnab looj tes rau cov tshiab tom qab ncab ntawm sweltering cua sov. (Muaj feem cuam tshuam: 8 Qhov Tsis Txaus Ntshai Ntawm Qhov Koj Ua Tau)
Txawm hais tias kuv tus khub thiab kuv mob siab heev uas kuv tsis txhawj xeeb txog kev nug q's ua ntej, Kuv nyiam lub tswv yim ntawm kev muaj kuv cov khoom txaus siab nrog kuv - thiab tom qab nag hmo, cia li hais tias kuv zoo siab kuv tau ua.
Xav Tau Ntau Cov Lus Qhia Txog Kev Sib Deev?
Yog tias koj xav paub dab tsi lwm cov lus qhia txog poj niam txiv neej yog ntab ncig Reddit, Kuv xav kom scrolling los ntawm cov xov no, uas nyob ze rau 2,000 lub tswv yim yuav ua li cas txaus siab rau koj tus khub. Cia li nco ntsoov, "dab tsi ua haujlwm rau ib tus neeg yuav tsis ua haujlwm rau koj (thiab koj tus khub)," hais tias Finn. "Thiab yog tias nws tsis yog, nws tsis txhais hais tias koj lub cev puas lawm!"
Thiab rau cov kwj deg tas li ntawm (tus kws tshaj lij-vetted!) cov lus qhia txog kev sib deev, koj tuaj yeem sau npe mus ib txhisCov duabCov ntawv xov xwm kev sib deev thiab kev sib raug zoo, NSFW.