Nkag siab vim li cas qee cov menyuam yaus tsis tshua muaj kev hlub (thiab tsis muaj kev sib khi)

Zoo Siab

• Kev tig cev tsis sib haum yog dab tsi
• Cov Teeb Meem ntawm Cov Kev Sib Tw Txuas Yam Tsis Zoo
• Cov tsos mob tseem ceeb thiab Yuav ua li cas paub
• Yuav kho tus mob li cas

Qee tus menyuam yaus tsis tshua muaj kev hlub thiab muaj kev nyuaj rau muab thiab tau txais kev hlub, zoo li tau txias me ntsis, thaum lawv txhim kho kev tiv thaiv kev mob hlwb, uas tuaj yeem tshwm sim los ntawm xwm txheej lossis kev nyuaj, xws li raug tso tseg los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv lossis raug kev txom nyem hauv tsev , piv txwv li.

Qhov kev tiv thaiv kev puas siab ntsws yog qhov kev tsis zoo hu ua Reactive Attachment Disorder, uas feem ntau tshwm sim los ntawm kev tsim txom menyuam yaus lossis kev tsim txom thiab muaj ntau dua rau cov menyuam yaus nyob hauv chaw tu menyuam ntsuag vim qhov kev xav tsis zoo uas lawv muaj nrog lawv niam thiab txiv.

Kev tig cev tsis sib haum yog dab tsi

Kev rov ua kom tsis muaj qhov tsis haum xeeb tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cuam tshuam rau menyuam yaus thiab menyuam yaus, cuam tshuam txoj hauv kev sib txuas lus thiab kev sib raug zoo, thiab cov menyuam muaj tus kabmob no tau txias, txaj muag, ntxhov siab thiab mob siab.

Tus menyuam yaus uas muaj qhov rov ua haujlwm tsis tuaj yeem kho tau zoo, tab sis nrog kev soj qab raws txoj cai nws tuaj yeem loj hlob tuaj, tsim kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev ntseeg siab hauv nws lub neej.

Cov Teeb Meem ntawm Cov Kev Sib Tw Txuas Yam Tsis Zoo

Qhov kev tsis zoo no feem ntau tshwm sim hauv menyuam yaus thiab tuaj yeem muaj ntau qhov laj thawj uas suav nrog:

• Kev tsim txom menyuam yaus lossis kev tsim txom thaum menyuam yaus;
• Kev tso tseg lossis poob ntawm niam thiab txiv;
• Niam txiv lossis tus neeg saib xyuas raug mob lossis ua rau hnyav;
• Hloov pauv ntawm cov neeg zov me nyuam, piv txwv li, tsiv los ntawm chaw tu menyuam ntsuag lossis tsev neeg ntau zaus;
• Loj hlob hauv cov cheeb tsam uas txwv tsis pub sijhawm los tsim kev sib txuas, xws li cov tsev koom nrog ntau tus menyuam thiab cov neeg zov menyuam tsawg.

Qhov kev cuam tshuam no tshwm sim tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 5 xyoos raug qee yam sib cais los ntawm tsev neeg, lossis yog lawv raug tsim txom, raug tsim txom lossis tsis saib xyuas thaum tseem yog menyuam yaus.

Cov tsos mob tseem ceeb thiab Yuav ua li cas paub

Qee qhov tsos mob uas tuaj yeem paub tias muaj tus kabmob no nyob hauv menyuam yaus, cov hluas lossis cov neeg laus muaj xws li:

• Zoo nkaus li tsis lees txais thiab tso tseg;
• Cuam tshuam kev txom nyem, qhia qhov nyuaj hauv kev hlub;
• Tsis muaj leej twg paub txog;
• Tsis nyab xeeb thiab kev rho tawm;
• Shyness thiab tshem tawm;
• Kev txhoj puab heev rau lwm tus thiab hauv ntiaj teb;
• Ntxhov siab vim thiab nro.

Thaum qhov kev tsis zoo no tshwm sim hauv tus menyuam, nws yog ib qho uas nyiam haus quaj, muaj qhov tsis zoo, txwv tsis pub niam txiv nyiam, nyiam nyob ib leeg lossis zam lub qhov muag. Ib qho ntawm thawj daim ntawv ceeb toom rau cov niam txiv yog thaum tus me nyuam tsis sib txawv ntawm leej niam lossis leej txiv thiab tus neeg tsis paub, tsis muaj kev sib txuam tshwj xeeb, raws li xav tau.

Yuav kho tus mob li cas

Cov Kab Mob Tsis Txaus Rov Ntsig Rua Kev Tshaj Lij Yuav tsum tau txais kev kho los ntawm tus kws tshaj lij lossis tus kws tshaj lij, xws li tus kws kho mob hlwb lossis kws kho hlwb, uas yuav pab tus menyuam tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog tsev neeg thiab zej zog.

Ib qho ntxiv, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev uas cov niam txiv lossis cov saib xyuas ntawm tus menyuam tseem tau txais kev cob qhia, kev qhuab qhia lossis kho mob, kom lawv muaj peev xwm kawm los cuam tshuam nrog tus menyuam thiab qhov xwm txheej.

Hauv cov menyuam yaus nyob hauv chaw tu menyuam ntsuag, kev saib xyuas cov neeg ua haujlwm sib raug zoo kuj tuaj yeem pab kom nkag siab txog qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb no thiab cov tswv yim kom tuaj yeem kov yeej, ua rau tus menyuam muaj peev xwm muab thiab tau txais kev hlub.