Cov Pej Xeem Tsis Txaus Siab Ntawm Cov Neeg Xav Phem Phem Yog Qhov Zoo
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Kev tawg yog ib qho nyuaj ua. (Qhov ntawd yog ib zaj nkauj, puas yog?) Tej yam tuaj yeem ntxhov siab sai, vim tias kev sib tham sib cav sib ceg-thiab tsis zoo, ntawm qhov ntawd. Thiab tam sim no nws hloov tawm hais tias tib neeg tau zoo dua nrog kev ua pauj kua zaub ntsuab (aka tshaj tawm ntiag tug, duab sib deev ntawm tus ex online yam tsis tau tso cai) dua li koj xav. WTF, puas yog?
Cov kws tshawb fawb hauv University of Kent tau pom tias tsuas yog 22 feem pua ntawm cov pej xeem yuav tshaj tawm ib yam dab tsi (phew), tab sis qhov zoo tshaj 99 feem pua (99 PERCENT, KOJ GUYS) yuav tsis muaj teeb meem yog tias qee yam kev ua pauj tsuas yog tshwm sim los xau. Cov kws tshawb fawb tseem pom tias 87 feem pua ntawm cov neeg koom nrog qhia tsawg kawg qee yam kev lom zem nrog lub tswv yim kua zaub ntsuab. Yog lawm, nws zoo li muaj ntau tus neeg uas txaus siab rau tus ex qhov mob.
Tsuas yog cov nyiaj hauv kab yog tias muaj tsawg kawg ob peb yam lus ceeb toom. Cov neeg uas ua rau pom tus yam ntxwv zoo ib yam nrog kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj, kev puas siab puas ntsws, thiab Machiavellianism (lub npe hu ua "Dark Triad" tus cwj pwm tsis zoo) feem ntau yuav txhawb thiab koom nrog kev ua pauj liab qab. Yog li saib xyuas cov cim qhia tias koj tab tom ntsib tus narcissist.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov, txawm li cas los xij, qhov kev tshawb fawb no tau ua tiav ntawm tus kheej xaiv tus qauv ntawm tsuas yog 100 tus neeg laus hnub nyoog 18 txog 54 xyoo sau hauv online-tsis yog qhov tseeb sawv cev ntawm tag nrho cov pejxeem. Tab sis tseem muaj qee qhov kev qhia uas peb tuaj yeem-thiab yuav tsum tau muab tshem tawm ntawm txoj kev tshawb no, qhov pom tseeb tshaj plaws tsuas yog qhia cov duab ntxim hlub thiab cov yeeb yaj kiab nrog tus khub koj ntseeg tiag tiag. Qhov thib ob? Ntau tus neeg tej zaum yuav tsum tau nrhiav txoj hauv kev zoo dua los tso lawv txoj kev npau taws thiab kev chim siab tom qab kev tawg. Vim li cas ho tsis siv DOA kev sib raug zoo los txhawb koj lub hom phiaj, siv sijhawm nrog koj cov phooj ywg, lossis kawm ntaus nrig? Peb kuj xav kom ua tib zoo saib tsib yam no tsis txhob ua tom qab kev sib cais.