Hais Txog Lub Hom Phiaj Tau Tas Li thiab Koj Tus Menyuam
Zoo Siab
- Dab tsi yog khoom ruaj khov?
- Nws tshwm sim thaum twg?
- Sim tsis txhob fret
- Lub zog tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm Piaget kev tshawb xav
- Tshawb kev sim rau yam khoom ruaj khov
- Qhov ntau nyuaj sab ntawm yam khoom raug ncua: kev sib cais ntxhov siab
- Ua si koj tuaj yeem ua si nyob rau theem no
- Peekaboo
- Nkaum thiab nrhiav
- Ntxiv kev ua si: Dab tsi yog ib qho khoom siv tas mus li?
- Cov nqa mus
Peb suav nrog cov khoom uas peb xav tias tseem ceeb rau peb cov nyeem. Yog tias koj yuav los ntawm cov txuas hauv nplooj ntawv no, peb yuav khwv tau nyiaj me me. Ntawm no yog peb cov txheej txheem.
Dab tsi yog khoom ruaj khov?
Nws yuav zoo li kev kuaj mob me me, tab sis cov khoom nyob ruaj khov yog tsuas yog ib qho ntawm ntau qhov tseem ceeb hauv kev loj hlob koj tau txais kev lom zem nrog koj tus me. Hauv kev txhais, khoom nyob ruaj khov txhais tau tias koj tus menyuam nkag siab tias txhua yam lawv tsis tuaj yeem pom - koj, lawv lub khob, tsiaj hauv tsev - tseem muaj.
Yog tias koj zais qhov khoom ua si nyiam thaum ua si nrog tus menyuam yaus me, yuav ua li cas? Lawv yuav zoo li luv luv tsis meej pem lossis chim siab tab sis tom qab ntawd cia li maj mam nrhiav nws. Qhov tseeb tiag “tsis pom, hauv siab.”
Thaum koj tus menyuam tau nkag mus rau yam khoom ruaj khov, txawm li ntawd los, tej zaum lawv yuav nrhiav qhov khoom ua si lossis sim muab nws rov qab - lossis tseem nrov nrov lawv tsis txaus siab thaum nws ploj. Qhov ntawd yog vim lawv paub tias qhov khoom ua si tseem muaj!
Kev loj hlob ntawm cov khoom ruaj khov pab koj tus menyuam ncav cuag ntau qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, suav nrog:
- txoj kev nco
- kev tshawb kawm
- ua txuj ua si
- nrhiav tau lus
Nws tseem tuaj yeem cuam tshuam txog koj tus menyuam li cas thaum koj tawm hauv chav - tam sim ntawd kua muag los yog pterodactyl shriek suab paub? - txawm hais tias nws nyuam qhuav mus da dej ceev.
Qhov kev sib cais ntxhov siab no tseem yog ib feem ntawm kev loj hlob. Ua si qee yam kev ua si (zoo li peekaboo) nrog koj tus menyuam tuaj yeem pab lawv paub tias yog, koj yog twv yuav raug hu rov qab los, zoo li koj ib txwm muaj ua ntej.
Cia peb ua tib zoo saib seb koj yuav pab koj li cas thaum lawv tsim lub tswv yim ntawm yam khoom ncua thiab ua haujlwm los ntawm kev ntxhov siab txog kev sib cais.
Nws tshwm sim thaum twg?
Thaum cov menyuam mos pom tau lub ntsej muag (ib puag ncig 2 hlis) thiab cov khoom paub (ze li 3 hlis), lawv pib nkag siab qhov muaj cov khoom no.
Tom qab ntawd lawv yuav pib nrhiav cov khoom ua si uas koj tau zais, muaj kev lom zem nthuav dav lossis qhib khoom, thiab nyem lub luag ntxhi hniav dawb thaum kev ua si zoo li peekaboo.
Jean Piaget, kws kho kev puas siab ntsws menyuam yaus thiab kws tshawb fawb uas tau tshawb nrhiav lub tswv yim ntawm yam khoom ruaj khov, tau tawm tswv yim tias qhov txuj ci no tsis pib txhim kho kom txog thaum tus menyuam muaj 8 lub hlis. Tab sis tam sim no feem ntau pom zoo tias menyuam mos pib to taub kev nyob ruaj khov ua ntej lawm - thaj tsam ntawm 4 txog 7 hlis.
Nws yuav siv sijhawm ntev rau koj tus menyuam los tsim lub tswvyim no. Lawv yuav mus tom qab ib qho khoom ua si zais cia ib hnub thiab zoo li tsis xav kiag li hnub tom qab. Qhov no yog qhov ncaj ncees, yog li tsis txhob txhawj!
Sim tsis txhob fret
Nws yog ib qho zoo uas xav tau koj tus menyuam kom ncav cuag lub keeb kwm kev loj hlob ntxov. Yog tias lawv zoo li tom qab lub sijhawm, nws tseem yog ib qho xav paub yog vim li cas.
Koj yuav xav tias muaj kev txhawj xeeb me ntsis yog koj tus menyuam muaj ze li 8 lub hlis tab sis tseem tsis pom tias lawv cov khoom ua si muab zais hauv qab daim pam. Tab sis so yooj yim: Kev loj hlob tsis tshwm sim zoo ib yam rau txhua tus menyuam, thiab koj tus menyuam yuav mus txog lub sijhawm no hauv lawv lub sijhawm.
Nws kuj tseem pom zoo cov menyuam yaus uas tsis nrhiav lawv cov khoom ua si yuav tsis muaj kev txaus siab rau qhov khoom ua si ntawd. Nco ntsoov ncaj ncees - ntau ntawm peb yuav tig peb lub tsev tig mus saib peb cov yuam sij lub tsheb thaum lub tso dag tso luag los ntawm ib daim npav tsis yog qhov tsim nyog rau peb lub sijhawm.
Yog koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb, tham nrog koj tus menyuam tus kws kho kaus hniav yuav pab daws tej kev txhawj xeeb uas koj muaj yog tias koj tus menyuam tseem tsis tau khaws cia nws yuav ua nws lub cev mus tag ib sim.
Lub zog tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm Piaget kev tshawb xav
Lub tswv yim ntawm cov khoom ruaj khov los ntawm Piaget txoj kev xav ntawm kev txhim kho kev txawj ntse. Piaget ntseeg raws li hauv qab no:
- Menyuam yaus tuaj yeem kawm ntawm lawv tus kheej, tsis muaj kev pab los ntawm cov neeg laus lossis lwm tus menyuam.
- Cov menyuam tsis tas yuav xav tau khoom plig lossis kev txhawb siab sab nraud los kawm yam tshiab.
- Cov menyuam yaus siv lawv qhov kev paub dhau los los tsim lawv cov kev paub ntawm lub ntiaj teb.
Los ntawm nws cov haujlwm nrog menyuam yaus, nws tsim theem theem-kev xav ntawm txoj kev loj hlob. Cov hom phiaj tas mus li yog qhov tseem ceeb hauv thawj plaub ntawm plaub theem - lub ntsuas pa theem. Theem no cim lub sijhawm ntawm yug thiab hnub nyoog 2.
Nyob rau qib no, koj tus menyuam kawm xyaum thiab tshawb los ntawm kev txav thiab kev paub, vim lawv tseem tsis tau nkag siab txog cov cim lossis kev xav tsis meej.
Qhov no txhais tau ntau yam ntawm cov duab-tsim nyog blundering txog, poob ntsej muag, thawb thiab cuam txhua yam khoom ua si uas koj nyuam qhuav khaws, thiab tso txhua qhov khoom lawv tuaj yeem nrhiav rau hauv lawv lub qhov ncauj. Tab sis nws tsis ua li cas, vim tias qhov no zoo li qhov me nyuam yaus kawm. (Thiab nws yog ib cov khoom uas ua rau pog-yawg luag ntxhi, yog li npaj txhij mus ntes cov sijhawm no thiab qhia tawm!)
Raws li peb twb tau pab them, Piaget ntseeg kev nkag siab ntawm cov khoom ruaj khov tau pib thaum muaj hnub nyoog 8 lub hlis. Tab sis ntau tus me nyuam pib txais lub tswv yim no ntau dua ua ntej. Koj yuav muaj cov ntawv pov thawj ntawm qhov no, yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj 5 hli twb tau txais qhov khoom ua si lawm!
Qee cov kws tshaj lij tau thuam lwm qhov ntawm Piaget qhov kev tshawb fawb. Nws xav tias theem kev loj hlob tau tshwm sim rau txhua tus menyuam yaus tib lub sijhawm. Tab sis cov pov thawj kev tshawb fawb tam sim no txhawb nqa lub tswv yim tias menyuam yaus txhim kho raws sijhawm.
Feem ntau hais lus, txawm hais tias, Piaget qhov kev tshawb fawb tau ua tiav zoo dhau sijhawm, thiab nws lub tswv yim ntawm kev txhim kho tseem tuav ib qho chaw tseem ceeb hauv kev kawm thiab kev xav.
Tshawb kev sim rau yam khoom ruaj khov
Piaget thiab lwm tus kws tshawb fawb tau pab qhia txog kev kwv yees mus li cas los ntawm ob peb hom kev sim.
Ib qho ntawm Piaget qhov kev sim ua ntej koom tes muab cov khoom ua si zais cia kom pom tias tus menyuam puas yuav saib qhov khoom ua si. Piaget yuav tso khoom ua si rau tus menyuam thiab tom qab ntawd npog nws nrog pam.
Cov menyuam mos uas ntsia rau qhov khoom ua si pom tias lawv nkag siab qhov khoom ua si tseem muaj thaum lawv tsis tuaj yeem pom nws. Cov menyuam mos uas zoo li npau taws lossis tsis meej pem tseem tsis tau tsim lub zog nyob ruaj khov.
Piaget thiab lwm tus kws tshawb fawb kuj siv los kuaj lub cev mus ib txhis. Nws yuav muab ib qho khoom ua si menyuam yaus, tom qab ntawv zais rau hauv qab lub thawv (A). Tom qab tus menyuam pom qhov khoom ua si hauv lub thawv A ob peb zaug, nws yuav zais cov khoom ua si es tsis txhob poob rau hauv lub thawv thib ob (B), kom ntseeg tau tias tus menyuam tuaj yeem yooj yim mus rau ob lub thawv.
Cov menyuam mos uas ntsia rau hauv lub thawv A rau cov khoom ua si pom tau tias lawv tseem tsis tuaj yeem siv cov kev paub daws teeb meem kom nkag siab qhov khoom ua si nyob hauv qhov chaw tshiab.
Cov kev tshawb fawb tom qab tau pab tib neeg kom paub cov khoom ruaj khov tuaj yeem txhim kho ua ntej 8 lub hlis uas muaj hnub nyoog. Cov kws tshawb nrhiav tau ua haujlwm nrog cov menyuam yaus uas muaj hnub nyoog 5 hlis, uas ua rau pom tus duab uas tau txav hauv lub arc.
Thaum cov menyuam tau siv los saib ntawm lub vijtsam txav, cov kws tshawb nrhiav tso ib lub thawv nyob tom qab ntawm lub vijtsam. Tom qab ntawd lawv tau nthuav tawm cov menyuam yaus qhov kev tshwm sim "muaj peev xwm", uas lub vijtsam mus txog hauv lub thawv thiab nres nres, thiab ib qho kev tshwm sim "tsis tuaj yeem", uas lub vijtsam txav mus los ntawm qhov chaw nyob ntawm lub thawv.
Cov menyuam mos tau tig los saib qhov kev tshwm sim tsis tuaj yeem ua rau lub sijhawm ntev dua. Qhov no qhia tau rau cov menyuam pom tias:
- cov khoom tawv tsis tuaj yeem hla dhau ib qho
- cov khoom muaj nyob txawm tias lawv tsis pom
Yog li ntawd ua kom tsis muaj qhov yuam kev: Koj tus me nyuam twb yog me ntsis Einstein.
Qhov ntau nyuaj sab ntawm yam khoom raug ncua: kev sib cais ntxhov siab
Qee cov cim ntawm cov khoom coj mus tas li hauv koj tus menyuam tuaj yeem lom zem thiab zoo siab, xws li saib lawv mus ncaj rau ib qho khoom ua si uas koj zais. Lwm yam cim… tsis ntau.
Cais kev ntxhov siab kuj tseem yuav tsim nyob rau tib lub sijhawm uas cov khoom ruaj khov, thiab qhov no yuav zoo siab dua. Tam sim no koj tus menyuam paub koj tseem nyob seb lawv puas tuaj yeem pom koj lossis tsis pom.
Yog li thaum lawv tsis pom koj, lawv tsis zoo siab, thiab lawv yuav qhia koj paub tam sim ntawd. Yog li ntawd ntau rau kev peeing hauv kev thaj yeeb.
Qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau ntxhov siab nyob hauv tsev, thiab nws yuav ua rau nws nyuaj rau koj tus menyuam thaum zov menyuam lossis nrog zaum, txawm tias thaum koj paub tias nws zoo tag nrho.
Koj tus menyuam yuav tsis xis nyob ib ncig ntawm tus neeg nws tsis tau txog thaum lub sijhawm no ("txhawj txog tus neeg tsis paub"). Qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau kev sib cais tseem nyuaj dua - thiab muaj kev ntxhov siab rau koj ob leeg.
Tab sis sim tsis txhob txhawj. Cov theem no yog ib ntus, thiab tsis ntev koj yuav muaj peev xwm tawm lawv ntawm kev nyab xeeb rau hauv lawv cov chaw ua si lossis cov rooj zaum thaum koj tso khaub ncaws lossis khiav mus rau chav dej - tsis tas yuav zawm koj tus kheej rau qhov kev tsis txaus siab ntawd.
Ua si koj tuaj yeem ua si nyob rau theem no
Ua si nrog koj tus menyuam yog ib txoj kev zoo los pab txhim kho lawv cov kev nkag siab ntawm cov khoom nyob mus ib txhis. Lwm cov txiaj ntsig? Kev ua si tas li rau cov khoom tuaj yeem tuaj yeem pab koj tus menyuam kom paub siv lub tswv yim tias txawm tias koj yuav mus deb me ntsis, koj yuav rov qab los sai sai.
Peekaboo
Qhov kev ua si dhau los no yog qhov zoo rau koj tus menyuam, tab sis koj tuaj yeem sim cov khoom sib txawv los hloov nws.
- Muab ib daim pam me, los yog phuam huv huv koj tus menyuam lub taub hau saib kom ntev li cas nws rub nws mus.
- Sim npog tag nrho koj lub taub hau thiab menyuam lub taub hau seb koj cov menyuam puas pom koj tom qab hle lawv daim pam vov. Cov menyuam mos tshaj 10 lub hlis yuav muaj kev vam meej ntau dua nyob ntawm no!
- Siv ib qho ntawm koj tus menyuam cov khoom ua si los ua si peeb-ib-boo los ntawm kev nyiag nws los ntawm qab cov khoom sib txawv lossis cov rooj tog zaum. Ua raws tus qauv thiab saib seb koj tus menyuam puas muaj peev xwm pib twv seb qhov khoom ua si yuav tshwm sim tom ntej.
Nkaum thiab nrhiav
- Cia koj tus menyuam saib koj npog cov khoom ua si nrog ob peb txheej phuam lossis phuam mos. Txhawb koj tus menyuam kom hle khaubncaws sab nraud povtseg kom txog thaum lawv nrhiav tau tus menyuam.
- Rau tus menyuam hlob dua, sim zais ob peb qho khoom ua si hauv chav. Cia lawv saib koj thiab mam li txhawb kom lawv nrhiav txhua qhov khoom ua si.
- Nkaum koj tus kheej! Yog tias koj tus menyuam nkag los lossis mus kev tau, puag ib puag ncig lossis tom qab ntawm lub qhov rooj thiab tham nrog lawv, txhawb lawv kom saib xyuas koj.
Koj tus menyuam nyiam lub suab ntawm koj lub suab, yog li nco ntsoov tham nrog lawv thoob plaws hauv kev ua si, txhawb lawv thiab txhawb lawv thaum lawv pom cov khoom. Nws tseem yuav pab tau kom sib tham thaum koj tawm hauv chav. Qhov no qhia rau lawv paub tias koj tseem nyob ze.
Ntxiv kev ua si: Dab tsi yog ib qho khoom siv tas mus li?
Nov yog cov khoom ua ntoo ntoo yooj yooj yim uas tuaj yeem pab koj tus menyuam paub ntau ntxiv txog kev nyob ruaj khov. Nws muaj lub qhov nyob rau sab saum toj thiab lub tais ntawm ib sab. Nws tuaj nrog ib lub pob me.
Txhawm rau qhia koj tus me nyuam yuav ua li cas ua si nrog lub thawv, tso lub pob rau hauv lub qhov. Ua siab loj thiab kos lub pob thaum nws dov hauv lub tais. Rov ua qhov no ib zaug lossis ob zaug thiab tom qab ntawd cia koj tus menyuam sim!
Cov khoom ua si no tsis yog pab nrog ua kom ruaj khov. Nws tseem zoo heev rau kev pab koj tus menyuam tsim kho tes kom pom kev muag thiab nco tau. Ntau lub tsev kawm Montessori siv nws, thiab koj tuaj yeem yuav nws online kom yooj yim siv hauv tsev.
Cov nqa mus
Yog tias koj tus menyuam npau taws thaum koj tawm hauv chav lossis txhom cov khoom noj txom ncauj thiab cov khoom ua si zais cia, tej zaum lawv yuav tau pib dai lub khoom cia no.
Nws yog ib feem ntawm txoj kev loj hlob ntawm txoj kev xav uas yuav pab koj tus menyuam nrhiav kev xav thiab cov lus ntxiv nrog rau lub cim kev coj.
Koj tuaj yeem pib pom qhov no hauv koj tus menyuam thaum lawv muaj 4 lossis 5 hlis xwb, tab sis tsis txhob txhawj xeeb yog tias siv sijhawm ntev dua. Zoo nkauj tsis ntev, koj yuav tsis muaj peev xwm rub lub wool (lossis super mos 100 feem pua cov paj rwb pam) dua lawv qhov muag lawm!