Qhov No 1 Vim Li Cas Cov Poj Niam Tsis Ncaj Ncees

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Koj yuav xav tias kev sib yuav uas tus khub khib nyiab yog kev sib yuav ntawm nws ob txhais ceg kawg, txoj cai? Kev tshawb fawb tshiab nthuav tawm ntawm 109th lub rooj sib tham ntawm American Sexological Association thov kom sib txawv. Ntau tus koom tes zoo siab hauv lawv txoj kev sib yuav-tab sis tseem tab tom nrhiav kev yi, kawm txog 100 tus poj niam hnub nyoog 35 txog 45 xyoos pom. (Faj seeb: Nqa qhov no nrog cov ntsev ntsev, raws li kev kawm koom nrog kuj yog cov tswv cuab ntawm AshleyMadison.com, qhov chaw rau cov tib neeg nrhiav kev ua txij nkawm tsis tu ncua.) Tab sis qhov ntxim nyiam tshaj plaws ntawm kev tshawb fawb? Tsis muaj leej twg ntawm cov poj niam hauv txoj kev tshawb fawb qhia kev txaus siab tawm hauv lawv txoj kev sib yuav. Rau caum-xya feem pua ​​yuam kev vim lawv xav tau ntau dua "kev mob siab rau."

Thiab thaum nws yuav zoo li nws yuav tsis muaj teeb meem ntau ntxiv rau tsuas yog teem sijhawm hmo ntuj, cov kws tshawb fawb koom nrog hauv txoj kev tshawb fawb hais tias nws tsis ua haujlwm li ntawd. "Kev pom ntev txog kev sib deev yog kev sib deev nrog tib tus neeg tau txais kev txaus siab," piav qhia tus kws tshawb fawb Eric Anderson, Ph.D., tus xibfwb qhia txog kev ua txiv neej nyob hauv Tsev Kawm Qib Siab Winchester hauv Askiv, nrog rau tus thawj saib xyuas kev tshawb fawb ntawm AshleyMadison.com .

Thiab thaum nrhiav kev sib deev lwm qhov yuav ua haujlwm rau qee tus khub niam txiv (xav tias Frank thiab Claire Underwood hauv Tsev ntawm Daim Npav), qhov ntawd tsis yog tib txoj kev mus (lossis qhov kev daws teeb meem zoo tshaj plaws!). Pib, hloov, los ntawm kev hais lus yooj yim. Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., tus kws kho mob poj niam txiv neej thiab kev sib raug zoo thiab tus thawj coj ntawm Lub Koom Haum Intimacy hauv Boulder hais tias "Muaj ntau khub niam txiv, txawm tias yog leej twg muaj kev hlub ntau, tsuas yog tsis paub tham txog kev sib deev." .

Yog tias koj thiab koj tus khub ob leeg zoo li ua tau txawv txawv me ntsis ntawm qhov kev kawm-tab sis ob qho tib si xav coj ntau yam txuj lom rau hauv chav pw-sau npe rau kev cob qhia ntawm lub khw muag khoom sib deev hauv zos rau koj hmo yav tom ntej, cov kws tshaj lij hais. Nws tuaj yeem pab ua kom koj ob leeg nyiam tham txog dab tsi tig koj rau-thiab yam tsis yog. Cov khaub ncaws sab laug, tab sis muaj ib tus kws tshaj lij tham txog cov tswv yim sib txawv thiab cov lus qhia yuav ua rau nws yooj yim rau koj qhib tom qab chav kawm thiab muaj kev lom zem ua tej yam ntxim hlub ua ke.

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