Kub Kub: Kev Sib Tsoo Yog Txoj Cai Sib Deev Tshaj Plaws
Zoo Siab
- Uh, Koj txhais li cas Los ntawm ... Sib tsoo?
- Vim Li Cas Sib Deev Pob Zeb
- Yuav Ua Li Cas Thiaj Li Sib Tsoo Kev Sib Deev Zoo Dua
- 1. Hnav rau lub ntees.
- 2. Ntxiv lube.
- 3. Bop nyob rau hauv lub pob tw.
- 4. Nqa ib tug buzzy phooj ywg.
- 5. Sim sawv ntsug sib deev.
- Tshuaj xyuas rau
Lub lim tiam dhau los thaum lub sijhawm Zoom hnub yug ua kev zoo siab, kuv tau hais txog kuv txoj kev hlub rau kev sib tsoo thiab sib tsoo thaum kuv pom qee qhov ntswg tig tshwm sim ntawm qhov screen. Kuv cov phooj ywg tsis tau txiav txim siab, raws nraim, tab sis ntau tus tau ua raws li qhov kev xav tsis zoo uas kuv khaws cia rau thaum twg los xij Bachelor franchise los txog hauv kev sib tham. Pom tau tias, feem ntau ntawm kuv cov phooj ywg tau sib tsoo tom qab hauv tsev kawm theem siab, nrog rau cov pob muag nyias nyias, xuas tes tuav, thiab discs.
Thaum txhua tus neeg nrhiav kev txaus siab txais tos rau lawv tus kheej cov kev xav thiab kev nyiam, (* ntxig Carrie Bradshaw lub suab*) Kuv tsis tuaj yeem pab tab sis xav tsis thoob: "Puas yog tib neeg nquag hloov lawv txoj kev zoo siab los ntawm kev sib tsoo yav dhau los?"
Obviously, kuv muaj ib tug hunch teb yog ib tug loj rog YOG. Tab sis kuv yog tus kws tshaj lij kev sib deev, yog li kuv tau coj txoj hauv kev tshawb nrhiav thiab tham nrog Taylor Sparks, tus kws qhia ntawv erotic thiab tus tsim ntawm Organic Loven, nrog rau lwm cov neeg nrhiav kev txaus siab uas tau khaws txoj cai hauv lawv cov kev sib deev repertoires ntev tom qab lawv ' d thawj zaug nyeem ntawv Tus Catcher Hauv Rye.
Uh, Koj txhais li cas Los ntawm ... Sib tsoo?
Ua ntej peb tuaj yeem dhia mus rau hauv kuv daim ntawv thesis (qhov sib tsoo yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab tsis muaj kev tiv thaiv kev sib deev zoo tshaj plaws), cia rau hauv tib nplooj ntawv txog kev sib tsoo txawm yog. Tiag tiag, kev sib tsoo yog ib qho kev sib deev uas tsawg kawg yog ib tus neeg txhawb nqa lawv cov genitals sab nraud ntawm ib yam dab tsi lossis lwm tus.
Nws tuaj yeem muaj kev lom zem nyob ib leeg siv lub hauv ncoo, caj npab ntawm lub rooj zaum, koj tus kheej tes, lossis tsiaj txhu, hais Sparks. Los yog, nws tuaj yeem txaus siab nrog tus khub. Thaum sib koom ua si, kev sib tsoo tuaj yeem zoo li qhov chaw mos ntawm qhov chaw mos, nrog lossis tsis muaj khaub ncaws. Tab sis, nws kuj tseem tuaj yeem zoo li qhov chaw mos-rau-tus ncej, qhov chaw mos-ntawm-lub duav, thiab lwm yam, txhuam, nws hais.
Kev sib tsoo kuj tseem tuaj yeem raug hu ua txheej txheej sab nrauv, sib koom ua ke, kev sib cais (kev sib deev ntawm qhov chaw sib tsoo), lossis hnyav hnyav. Thaum txhua tus neeg koom nrog koom nrog hnav khaub ncaws tag, nws kuj tseem dubbed qhuav qhuav, thaum thaum txhua tog neeg liab qab tag nrho thiab txhuam lawv cov qau ua ke, nws paub tias yog txiab. Hauv ntiaj teb dab tsi yuav kev sib deev uas tsis tsim nyog txaus siab muaj ntau lub npe menyuam yaus? (Nws yuav tsis!)
Vim Li Cas Sib Deev Pob Zeb
Ob lo lus: Clitoral stimulation. Koj puas paub 73 feem pua ntawm cov tswv ntawm qhov ncauj qhov ntswg xav tau clitoral stimulation rau orgasm lossis muaj orgasms zoo nrog clitoral stim? "Kev sib tsoo muab rau tus tswv tsev qias neeg clitoral stimulation feem ntau xav tau mus txog orgasm," pom zoo Sparks.
Tus kheej, Kuv nyiam kev sib tsoo vim tias kuv txaus siab rau kev txhawb nqa ntawm clitoral, tab sis kuv lub caj pas clitoris (uas yog sab nraud) yog qhov rhiab heev. Yog hais tias lub pob me me tau txhawb nqa ntau dhau, nrawm dhau, dheev tag nrho qhov xwm txheej dhau los ua kev seev cev me me ntawm kev zam kuv qhov clit. Tsis txaus siab kiag li. Txawm li cas los xij, kev sib tsoo - tshwj xeeb, cov tsoos tsho sib tsoo - muab lub suab nrov zoo ib yam uas xav tias oh-yog-zoo tiv thaiv kuv cov clit thiab tswj kom ua tsis tau. dhautxhawb nws.
Sparks ntxiv tias G-spot tseem tuaj yeem (tsis ncaj qha) txhawb los ntawm kev sib tsoo. "G-chaw zaum sab xis hauv qab thiab tom qab cov pob txha pubic, yog li tso siab rau ntawm lub qhov quav tuaj yeem ua rau thaj tsam ntawd thiab ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo."
Rau cov ntaub ntawv: Kev sib tsoo kuj tseem tuaj yeem zoo rau cov tib neeg nrog rab qau, thiab.Nws ua rau nkag siab yog tias koj xav txog nws: Dab tsi ua haujlwm tes, kev sib deev ntawm qhov ncauj, thiab kev sib deev nkag tau zoo? Lawv txhua tus koom nrog txhawb nqa sab nraud ntawm chaw mos. "Vim tias kev txhuam thiab kev sib tsoo kuj tseem cuam tshuam rau sab nraud ntawm qhov chaw mos, lawv kuj tuaj yeem ua rau tus tswv noov zoo heev," hais Sparks. Yog tias tus tswv no tsis tau txiav plaub hau, "lub nraub qaum thiab nraub qaum ntawm kev sib tsoo kuj tseem tuaj yeem txav cov tawv taub hau thiab nce tus qau rau hauv txoj kev uas tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev txhawb siab heev."
Ntxiv rau qhov kev xav zoo, kev sib tsoo yog qhov Theo, 26, ib tug txiv neej trans hu ua "period-pom pov thawj," uas yog vim li cas nws hlub txoj hauj lwm heev. "Kuv lub sij hawm muab rau kuv txiv neej dysphoria," nws piav qhia. (Gender dysphoria yog thaum ib tug neeg ntsib kev nyuaj siab rau lawv cov kev sib deev lom neeg lossis qhov chaw mos tsis zoo ib yam li lawv tus poj niam txiv neej.) Yog li ntawd, nws tsis nyiam koom nrog kev ua poj niam txiv neej tsis hnav thaum nws cev khaub ncaws. Nws hais tias "Kev sib deev sib deev tso cai rau kuv khaws kuv cov khaub ncaws txhua lub sijhawm ntawm lub hlis, thiab tseem tau txais kev zoo siab," nws hais. "Ntxiv rau, kuv feem ntau orgasm."
Dawson, 24, tus poj niam txiv neej hloov pauv kuj tseem lees paub txoj haujlwm nrog ua tus kheej-lees paub rau nws. "Kev sib tsoo nrog cov khaub ncaws tso cai rau kuv kom muaj kev sib deev nrog ib tus neeg (piv txwv li, sawv ib hmo) yam tsis tas yuav muaj kev sib tham tiag tiag txog kuv lub qau, kuv nyiam lawv hu li cas, thiab lwm yam."
Lub caij no, Courtney, 32, poj niam poj niam cisgender nyiam nws vim tias nws muaj kev pheej hmoo qis. "Kuv muaj kab mob herpes, thiab kuv tsis nyob ntawm cov tshuaj tiv thaiv kab mob," nws hais. "Thaum kuv xav tias kuv yuav muaj qhov tshwm sim, sib tsoo nrog peb cov ris tsho hauv qab yog ib txoj hauv kev kuv tus hluas nraug thiab kuv txuas ntxiv kev sib deev."
Nws hais yog lawm: Sib tsoo yog ib qho kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev sib deev tsawg dua - tab sis FTR, hauv qee qhov xwm txheej, tseem muaj qee qhov kev pheej hmoo ntawm STI kis tau tus mob thiab cev xeeb tub. Yog tias koj ob leeg hnav khaub ncaws, qhov kev pheej hmoo ntawm STI kis tau tus mob yog xoom. Yog tias, txawm li cas los xij, muaj kev sib deev ntawm qhov chaw mos nws tuaj yeem ua rau STI kis tau los ntawm kev sib cuag ntawm daim tawv nqaij (HPV, kab mob khaub thuas, mob syphilis, trichomoniasis) lossis kua dej sib deev (HPV, HSV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV), ib yam nkaus. (Muaj feem cuam tshuam: Kab mob STDs puas tuaj yeem mus ntawm lawv tus kheej?)
Kev xeeb tub yog ua tau txhua lub sij hawm ib tug neeg uas muaj noob qes thiab ib tug neeg uas muaj zes qe menyuam thiab uterus muaj noov-hauv-qhov chaw mos sib deev. Thaum sib tsoo feem ntau tsis zoo ib yam nrog P-in-V, tsis muaj kev sib tsoo tub ceev xwm, yog li, yog tias koj xav kom ntsuas P-in-V li sib tsoo-lossis siv sib tsoo ua ntej ntawm P-in-V- Kuv yuav tsis yuck koj yum. Tsuas yog nco ntsoov tias kev xeeb tub yog ua tau yog tias cov kev cai hais saum toj no tau ua tiav.
Yuav Ua Li Cas Thiaj Li Sib Tsoo Kev Sib Deev Zoo Dua
Kev ntseeg siab, tsib lub tswv yim sib tsoo no yuav hloov koj - thiab koj tus khub - rau hauv cov kiv cua, ib yam nkaus.
1. Hnav rau lub ntees.
"Kev sib txawv ntawm cov khaub ncaws hnav yuav tsim ntau hom kev txhawb zog," hais tias Sparks. Dab tsi zoo rau koj yuav txawv raws koj tus kheej nyiam. Denim thiab corduroy, piv txwv li, qiv lawv tus kheej zoo rau kev sib txhuam hnyav, zoo li cov hauv qab uas muaj cov seams. Txhob lo lo ntxhuav, ntawm qhov tod tes, yog qhov zoo tshaj rau kev xav ntau ntxiv ntawm kev ua khau tawm tsam koj cov khoom, nws hais.
Tus kheej, Kuv nyiam sib tsoo thaum hnav leggings ncab lossis tawm hws, uas tso cai rau kuv kis kuv ob txhais ceg tau yooj yim, thiab nkag mus rau hauv txoj haujlwm uas ua rau txhawb kuv qhov kub kub yooj yim dua.
2. Ntxiv lube.
Tsis txhob cia nws lub npe menyuam yaus ("qhuav humping") ua rau koj los ntawm kev ntxiv me ntsis hauv khw muag khoom ntub dej rau koj qhov kev ua si! Tus kheej, Kuv nyiam ntxiv me ntsis dab ntawm lub roj ntawm kuv lub labia kom txo tau qhov tsis xis nyob ntawm kev sib txhuam ntawm kuv daim di ncauj hauv qab. (Saib: Vim Li Cas Lube Ua Txhua Yam Kev Sib Deev Zoo Dua)
3. Bop nyob rau hauv lub pob tw.
"Koj tuaj yeem siv lub pob tw thaum yuav luag txhua yam kev ua plees ua yi - tsis hais koj lossis koj tus khub poj niam txiv neej, qhov chaw mos, lossis kev sib deev," Alicia Sinclair, tus kws qhia txog poj niam txiv neej & CEO ntawm b-Vibe, lub tuam txhab khoom muag khoom muag, yav dhau los hais. Cov duab. "[Nws yog] khoom zoo siab rau txhua lub cev thiab leej twg."
Thaum kuv tsis tau sim hnav lub pob tw ntsaws thaum sib tsoo, Carter, 32, thiab nws tus khub Hannah muaj. Carter hais tias "Hannah hnav lub pob tw thaum twg peb mus rau qhov kev tshwm sim rau pej xeem," Carter hais. "Txoj kev ntawd thaum peb tawm mus rau lub tsho loj lossis chav dej kom nws hnav, peb tuaj yeem ua li ntawd nrog txhua yam ntawm peb cov khaub ncaws, thiab nws tseem tuaj yeem tawm mus, "nws hais. Hannah, nws hais tias, tsis tuaj yeem tawm ntawm kev txhawb nqa clitoral ib leeg, tab sis tuaj yeem thaum nws tau ua tiav lawm.
4. Nqa ib tug buzzy phooj ywg.
Ua siab ncaj, txhua hom vibrator tuaj yeem siv tau ntawm no, tab sis kuv pom zoo kom lub tshuab vibrators.
Tsuas yog lub lim tiam dhau los kuv tau ua tiav unwrapping ib tug tshiab Le Wand wand vibrator (Yuav Nws, $ 140, babeland.com) thaum kuv boo tuaj. Nws tau mus txog qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kuv lub rooj ntawm chav nyob (huag, lub neej ntawm tus kws sau ntawv sib deev) thiab muab nws tso rau. Thaum kuv hnia nws nyob zoo, nws pib siv qhov buzzy ntawm kuv nraub qaum. Thaum peb txuas ntxiv hnia, nws pib rub tus pas nrig hauv kuv lub cev.
Thaum kawg, nws tuav lub wand ntawm peb lub cev thaum peb tsoo thiab humped tawm tsam lwm tus lub cev tag nrho-hnav mus txog thaum, raws li Trey Songz bop mus, cov neeg nyob ze paub ob peb lub npe.
5. Sim sawv ntsug sib deev.
"Sawv nrog koj tus khub, thiab sib tsoo nrog (lossis tawm tsam) lawv, thaum ib tus ntawm koj qev tiv thaiv phab ntsa tuaj yeem ntxim hlub heev thiab txaus siab," Sparks hais. Hauv paus, nws pom zoo kom rov tsim kho lub ntsej muag sib tsoo pem hauv ntej txoj haujlwm uas koj tus kws qhia ntawv theem nrab thiab theem siab tsis tau tso cai.
"Ntxiv rau qhov chaw tau ntxim hlub tuaj yeem coj koj mus rau qib siab dua ntawm kev sib deev," nws hais ntxiv. Yog li, tej zaum sim sawv sib tsoo hauv lub tsho tiv no ntawm koj tog tom ntej. Kev ceeb toom ncaj ncees: Raws li zaj dab neeg hais saum toj no qhia, kev sib tsoo tseem tuaj yeem ua suab nrov, yog li koj yuav ua tib zoo mloog lub suab nrov yog tias koj nyob hauv pej xeem.