7 Tsis pom qhov pom tseeb tias nws yog Jerk

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Tsis ncaj rau koj lub server? Tshawb xyuas nws cov ntawv tas li? Tsis tuaj yeem nres tham txog nws tus ex? Tag nrho cov cim qhia meej tias nws yog tus phooj ywg tsis zoo. Tab sis cov kws tshaj lij sib tham pom zoo tias muaj ntau cov cim qhia me me uas tuaj yeem ua tus chij liab loj-yog tias koj paub yuav nrhiav dab tsi. Khaws ib lub qhov muag rau cov sneaky xya ntawm koj thawj hnub thiab cawm koj tus kheej ntawm kev mob siab loj hauv txoj kev.

Nws yog Flattering heev

Koj paub tias koj zoo li kub, thiab qhov "koj zoo nkauj" lossis hauv qab-nws-ua pa "wow" thaum koj taug kev los ntawm lub qhov rooj yog qhov tseeb. Tab sis yog tias nws tas li hais tias koj yog tus zoo nkauj tshaj plaws, txawj ntse tshaj plaws, tus poj niam ntxim nyiam tshaj plaws uas nws tau ntsib dua-thiab koj tseem tsis tau ua tiav koj thawj zaug haus-tej zaum yuav yog lub cim qhia tias nws yog kev dag ntxias, ceeb toom Patti Feinstein, Chicago raws li kev sib tham tus kws qhia. Tom qab tag nrho, koj yog txaus, tab sis nws tsis paub koj zoo txaus kom paub tias tsis tau. "Nws tau siv qhov kev qhuas kom ua rau koj tso koj tus neeg saib xyuas qis. Nws xav kom koj xav tias nws yog Mr. Txoj cai, tam sim ntawd, yog li koj yuav tsis muaj lub hom phiaj hais txog seb nws puas yog lossis tsis haum raws li koj xav tau yog tias nws ' d tau nqis los rau hauv ntiaj teb, "nws piav qhia.

Nws Over-Tips

Tseeb, nws yuav zoo dua li ntuav 10 feem pua, tab sis yog tias nws ua rau cov nuj nqis loj lossis txo qis ntau dua 20 feem pua ​​rau qhov kev pabcuam nruab nrab, nws tsis zoo, ceeb toom Feinstein. "Nws tuaj yeem txhais tau tias nws yog tus narcissist. Nws xav zoo li nws yog tus tua loj, thiab xav paub ntau ntxiv txog nws zoo li kev sib txuas tiag tiag," Feinstein piav qhia.

Nws nthuav tawm lub Bar yog qhov thaiv deb ntawm nws chav tsev

Tej zaum nws yuav tau xaiv lub teeb ci, romantic wine bar, tab sis koj lub kav hlau txais xov yuav tsum nce mus yog tias nws nyob ze rau qhov chaw nws nyob, ceeb toom Mike Goldstein, tus tsim ntawm EZ Dating Coach, New Jersey-based dating service. Nws tsis yog nws yog nws lub hom phiaj loj kom coj koj rov qab mus rau nws chav tsev (txawm hais tias nws yuav muaj qhov nyob hauv nws lub siab) nws yog qhov uas nws ua tej yam yooj yim rau nws, yam tsis tau coj koj mus rau hauv tus account, piav qhia Goldstein. Nws tsis muaj teeb meem loj yog tias nws tshwm sim ib zaug (hav, lub bar ntawd zoo nkauj heev) tab sis yog tias koj ib txwm yog tus mus ncig ua si, nws yog lub cim qhia tias nws yog tus kheej me ntsis.

Nws yog Regular

Bartender, neeg rau zaub mov, thiab lub rooj nyob ib sab ntawm koj ob leeg paub nws lub npe. Nws yuav zoo li qab zib, tab sis nws tuaj yeem yog txoj hauv kev ntawm nws txoj kev tswj hwm kev tswj hwm. "Nws tsis yog thaj chaw nruab nrab, uas ua rau koj muaj qhov tsis zoo. Nws tuaj yeem txhais tau tias nws yuav ua txhua yam nws txoj hauv kev," hais tias Feinstein. Yog tias nws rub qhov kev txav no, tab sis koj tseem nyiam nws, hais kom koj xaiv qhov chaw rau hnub thib ob.

Nws Badmouths Nws Boss Txhua tus muaj hnub tsis zoo, tab sis cov kws tshaj lij pom zoo nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws kom ceev faj txog ib tus neeg uas siv feem ntau ntawm thawj hnub yws yws. Txawm hais tias nws cov dab neeg hais txog nws lub chaw haujlwm tsis ua haujlwm ua rau koj luag, nws xaiv los tsom mus rau qhov tsis zoo yog lub cim ntawm yuav ua li cas feem ntau ntawm cov rooj sib tham yuav poob qis yav tom ntej, yog tias koj tseem sib tham.

Nws qhia Shots

Nrog rau tham txog nws tus frat thiab qhia dab neeg txog kev taug txuj kev nyuaj uas nws thiab nws cov phooj ywg haus tau muaj, xaj kom txhaj tshuaj yog lub cim qhia tias nws yuav tsis npaj txhij los tsaws, ceeb toom Goldstein. Nws tuaj yeem muaj kev lom zem heev los dai nrog, tab sis nws yuav tsis yog cov khoom siv kev sib raug zoo.

Nws Tsis Nervous

Nws yog thawj hnub, thiab muaj feem yuav yog, tej yam txawv txawv yuav tshwm sim. Tab sis yog tias nws zoo li txias tag nrho los ntawm thawj zaug nyob zoo, nws yuav yog lub cim qhia tias nws txoj kev dhau mus rau nws tus kheej, ceeb toom Feinstein. "Ob peb lub sijhawm txawv txawv txhais tau tias koj ob leeg tau nqis peev; uas koj ob leeg xav muab koj txhais taw zoo tshaj plaws rau lwm tus neeg," piav qhia Feinstein.

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