5 Txoj Kev Noj Qab Nyob Zoo Kom Tau Koj Dhau Kev Sib Nrauj

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• Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg: Rov tshuaj xyuas yav dhau los yuav ua rau nws nyuaj dua
• Cuav: Kev quaj ntsuag tsis muaj txiaj ntsig
• Cuav: Rebound Sex pab koj txav mus
• Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg: Un-ua raws nws ntawm txhua qhov kev sib tham yuav ua rau nws yooj yim dua
• Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg: Muab txhua yam uas koj tau ua ua khub yuav ua rau mob tsawg dua
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Tom qab kev ntxhov siab heev, tsis txhob hais txog kev sib cais dua yuav zoo li txoj hauv kev yooj yim tshaj plaws los tawm hauv koj lub siab yav dhau los-tab sis ib txoj kev tshawb fawb tshiab tau luam tawm hauv phau ntawv journal Social Psychological thiab Personality Science qhia lwm yam. Yog tias koj tawm tsam nrog kev sib cais tiag tiag thiab xav ua kom cov txheej txheem rov ua haujlwm tsis zoo li qhov ua tau, zam cov tsib tus cwj pwm tsis zoo no thiab koj yuav hnov ​​​​zoo dua tsis muaj sijhawm. (Nkag siab tias yog vim li cas thiaj tuaj yeem pab tau! Txheeb xyuas "Dab Tsi Tsis Zoo?" Dating Dilemmas, Piav.)

Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg: Rov tshuaj xyuas yav dhau los yuav ua rau nws nyuaj dua

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Txoj kev tshawb no hauv Social Psychological thiab Personality Science pom tias cov neeg uas tau xav txog lawv txoj kev sib raug zoo tsis tu ncua tau txais kev pom tseeb thiab pom tau tias muaj kev xav zoo dua li cov neeg uas nyuam qhuav xav txog nws. Tab sis los ntawm kev ceeb toom cov neeg koom ntawm lawv qhov kev poob, nws yuam kom lawv tsom mus rau cov duab loj-i.e. leej twg lawv tsis muaj lawv tus khub-thiab tau pab kom rov zoo. Qhov ntawd txhais tau tias koj qhov kev txhawb nqa tom qab kev sib cais yuav tsum yog tus phooj ywg uas yuav mloog. "Cov poj niam zoo li sib koom ua ke, yog li tus phooj ywg uas tsis zoo txog koj tus qub yuav tsis ua rau koj zoo siab dua," hais tias tus kws sau ntawv sib koom Grace Larson ntawm Northwestern University. Cov lus coj mus tsev ntawm no tsis yog tsuas yog ua rau koj tus kheej xav thiab tsis muaj zog, nws piav qhia, tab sis theej saib qhov xwm txheej nrog kev xav tshiab.

Cuav: Kev quaj ntsuag tsis muaj txiaj ntsig

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Tseeb, saib ntawm lub khob ib nrab khoob yog feem ntau yog qhov tsis zoo rau coj. Tab sis koj yuav tsum tau muab sijhawm rau koj tus kheej kom xav tias tsis zoo tom qab kev sib cais, hais tias Karen Sherman, Ph.D., tus kws paub txog kev sib raug zoo thiab tus kws sau ntawv ntawm Kev sib yuav Khawv koob! Nrhiav Nws, Khaws Cia, thiab Ua Kom Kawg. Nws yuav siv tib neeg kwv yees li 11 lub lis piam tom qab sib tawg los pib saib lawv cov xwm txheej tshiab hauv lub teeb pom kev zoo, raws li kev tshawb fawb hauv Phau ntawv Journal of Positive Psychology. Kev tu siab-seb qhov ntawd txhais tau tias koj tau quaj zoo dua li rom-com lossis mus rau hauv nroog ntawm Ben & Jerry nrog tus hluas nkauj-yuav pab rov ua haujlwm, hais tias Sherman. (Hla qhov ua txhaum thaum pigging tawm: SHAPE Qhov Zoo Tshaj Plaws Blogger Khoom Plig: 20 Noj Qab Nyob Zoo Blogs Uas Ua Rau Peb Mus Mmmmm ...)

Cuav: Rebound Sex pab koj txav mus

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Sherman hais tias "Kev sib deev rov qab yog ntau dua ntawm Band-Aid dua li kev kho mob," Sherman hais. Nws yuav tsis ua mob rau koj txoj kev rov qab los, tab sis nws yuav tsis pab ntau yam. Qhov tseeb, cov tib neeg uas nrhiav kev koom nrog kev sib deev tshiab tom qab kev sib tawg hauv txoj kev tshawb fawb los ntawm University of Missouri tsis tau qhia txog kev nyuaj siab, tsis npau taws, lossis muaj kev ntseeg tus kheej siab dua tom qab. Uas tau hais tias, lwm cov kev tshawb fawb qhia tau hais tias kev sib raug zoo rov qab tuaj yeem pab txo qis tom qab kev sib tawg. Sherman hais tias "Kev yos yuag yuag tsawg dua li kev sib deev yooj yim thiab yuav muaj txiaj ntsig ntau dua vim tias nws ua haujlwm cuam tshuam kev yooj yim," Sherman hais. Cov kev sib raug zoo rov qab yuav tsum tsis txhob ua rau hnyav heev, vim tias koj xav tau sijhawm los ua koj li kev xav. Tab sis ntsib cov neeg tshiab tuaj yeem pab koj paub tias muaj ntau yam ntxiv nyob ntawd tos ntsoov, nws hais.

Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg: Un-ua raws nws ntawm txhua qhov kev sib tham yuav ua rau nws yooj yim dua

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Cov neeg uas tseem nyob hauv Facebook nrog lawv tus ex tom qab kev sib nrauj tsis ntev los no yeej muaj kev xav tsis zoo rau kev sib cais, nrog rau kev sib deev tsawg dua thiab xav tau rau lawv tus qub, raws li kev tshawb fawb British. Txawm li cas los xij, siv qhov kev nkag mus saib nws cov haujlwm tsis pom zoo txhua qhov cuam tshuam zoo-thiab ua rau muaj kev nyuaj siab ntau dua li kev tawg. (Nws tsis yog ex stalking uas tsis noj qab nyob zoo: Yuav ua li cas phem yog Facebook, Twitter, thiab Instagram rau Mental Health?) "Nws tag nrho cov boils down rau koj lub siab nyiam," hais tias Sherman. De -friends tus nplaim taws tsis ntev los no tuaj yeem ua rau koj xav ntau ntxiv txog lawv vim tias koj paub tias koj tsis tuaj yeem pom dab tsi tshwm sim hauv lawv lub neej. Saib xyuas koj tus cwj pwm rau thawj lub lim tiam lossis ob yog txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj kom paub tias txoj kev twg zoo tshaj rau koj, nws hais ntxiv.

Tswvyim hais ua dabneeg: Muab txhua yam uas koj tau ua ua khub yuav ua rau mob tsawg dua

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Kev tshem tawm tag nrho lawv cov khoom ntiag tug yog qhov yuav tsum tau ua, hais tias Sherman. Tab sis cia tshem tawm txhua yam uas ua rau koj nco txog nws-i.e. qee hom suab paj nruag lossis qee hom zaub mov-tsuas yog tsis muaj laj thawj. Es tsis txhob mus karaoke dua vim hais tias siv los ua hmo ntuj uas koj nyiam, cia li mus nrog cov neeg tshiab los tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov haujlwm ntawd. Cov koom haum tshiab lossis tshwj xeeb zoo li yog qhov muaj zog tshaj plaws hauv peb lub cim xeeb, raws li kev tshawb fawb los ntawm Nroog University London, yog li lub sijhawm dhau los qhov kev nco tshiab yuav hloov qhov qub, Sherman piav qhia. (Tej zaum yuav ua kom nco tau zoo: Sim ua ib qho ntawm 5 Qhov Zoo Tshaj Plaws Tau Txais Kev Noj Qab Nyob Zoo Tus Hluas Nkauj.)

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