Kev quaj thaum yau
Me nyuam yaus quaj rau ntau yam. Kev quaj yog qhov kev xav teb rau lub sijhawm ntxhov siab lossis ib qho xwm txheej. Qhov kev ntsuas ntawm tus me nyuam lub siab nyob ntawm tus me nyuam qib kev loj hlob thiab cov kev paub dhau los. Cov menyuam yaus quaj thaum lawv hnov mob, ntshai, ntxhov siab, ntxhov siab, ntxhov siab, npau taws, thiab thaum lawv tsis tuaj yeem qhia lawv txoj kev xav.
Kev quaj yog cov lus ib txwm coj los hais rau lub sijhawm chim siab uas menyuam tsis tuaj yeem daws. Thaum tus menyuam txawj siv cov khoom, kev quaj yog nyob ntawm nws tus kheej thiab ib txwm muaj.
Sij hawm dhau mus, tus me nyuam kawm qhia qhov kev xav ntawm lub siab, chim siab, los yog tsis meej pem tsis muaj quaj. Cov niam txiv yuav tau teeb tsa cov txheej txheem los pab tus menyuam tsim tus cwj pwm tsim nyog.
Qhuas tus menyuam tsis txhob quaj kom txog lub sijhawm thiab qhov chaw zoo. Qhia lwm cov lus teb rau cov xwm txheej ntxhov siab. Yaum cov me nyuam kom "siv lawv cov lus" los piav qhia dab tsi uas ua rau lawv chim.
Raws li cov menyuam yaus tsim kho kev paub daws teeb meem ntau dua thiab paub daws teeb meem, lawv yuav quaj ntau zaus. Thaum lawv loj tiav, cov tub hluas nyiam quaj tsawg dua li ntxhais. Coob leej ntseeg tias qhov sib txawv ntawm tus tub thiab tus ntxhais no yog qhov kev coj ua.
Kev npau taws sai sai yog qhov tsis zoo thiab cuam tshuam kev coj tus cwj pwm lossis kev xav txawv. Lawv feem ntau tshwm sim nyob rau hauv teb rau cov kev xav tau tiag tiag los yog kev ntshaw. Kev ua kom qoj ib ce feem ntau yuav tshwm sim hauv cov menyuam yau lossis cov menyuam yaus uas tsis tuaj yeem qhia lawv qhov kev xav tau lossis tswj lawv lub siab thaum lawv ntxhov siab.
American Academy of Pediatrics lub vev xaib. Cov lus qhia sab saum toj rau tantrums muaj sia nyob kev npau taws. www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/communication-discipline/Pages/Temper-Tantrums.aspx. Hloov kho thaum Lub Kaum Hlis 22, 2018. Nkag mus Lub Rau Hli 1, 2020.
Consolini DM. Quaj. Merck Los Ntawm Txhais Tes: Professional Version. www.merckmanuals.com/professional/pediatrics/mymer-in-infants-and-hais/crying. Hloov Tshiab Lub Xya Hli 2018. Mus txog Lub Rau Hli 1, 2020.
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