Kev sib daj sib deev hauv menyuam yaus - yuav tsum paub dab tsi

Kab lus no qhia koj tias koj yuav ua li cas yog tias koj xav tias tus menyuam tau raug yuam deev.

Ib ntawm plaub tus ntxhais thiab ib ntawm kaum tus tub hluas tau raug tsim txom ua ntej lawv muaj 18 xyoo.

Kev ua phem ua qias rau menyuam yaus yog ib qho haujlwm uas tus neeg ua phem sib deev tau, nrog rau:

• Kov tus menyuam tus qau
• Rub tus neeg phem lub caj ces qau rau tus menyuam daim tawv lossis khaub ncaws
• Tso cov khoom rau hauv tus menyuam qhov quav lossis qhov chaw mos
• Nplaig hnia
• Qhov ncauj nrog txiv neej pw
• Sib deev

Kev ua phem quab yuam kuj tuaj yeem tshwm sim yam tsis muaj kev sib chwv, xws li:

• Tshaj tawm tus kheej ib tus qau
• Muaj menyuam yaus ua rau saib duab liab qab
• Muaj menyuam yaus saib cov duab liab qab
• Masturbating pem hauv ntej ntawm ib tug menyuam

Xav tias yog kev quab yuam deev thaum me nyuam yaus:

• Qhia koj tias lawv tau raug tsim txom ntawm kev sib deev
• Muaj teeb meem zaum lossis sawv
• TSIS TXHOB PUB ​​gym
• Muaj kab mob sib kis los yog xeeb tub
• Paub txog thiab tham txog kev sib deev
• Kev khiav tawm
• Muaj cov neeg laus hauv lawv lub neej uas ua kom lawv tsis txhob sib chwv nrog lwm tus neeg laus
• Khaws lawv tus kheej thiab zoo li muaj kev tsis pub leej twg paub

Kev ua phem ua qias rau cov menyuam yaus yuav muaj:

• Tso quav muaj teeb meem, xws li txhawm rau lawv tus kheej (encopresis)
• Noj kev tsis zoo (tsis nco qab mob hlwb)
• Cov teeb meem ntawm chaw mos lossis ntawm lub qhov quav, xws li mob thaum mus chav dej, lossis qhov chaw mos khaus lossis tso tawm
• Mob taub Hau
• Teeb meem pw tsaug zog
• Plab mob ib ce

Kev ua phem ua qias rau menyuam yaus tej zaum yuav:

• Siv dej caw los yog tshuaj
• Koom nrog qhov coj tus cwj pwm sib deev tsis txaus ntshai
• Tau txais qhab nias tsis zoo hauv tsev kawm
• Kom ntau yam kev ntshai
• Tsis xav ua lawv cov kev ua ub no

Yog koj xav tias tus menyuam tau raug yuam deev, coj tus menyuam mus ntsib kws kho mob.

• Nrhiav cov muab kev pab uas paub txog kev quab yuam tsim txom. Yuav luag txhua tus kws kho mob menyuam yaus, tsev neeg muab tshuaj rau tsev neeg, thiab cov chaw muab kev pab thaum muaj xwm ceev tau txais kev cob qhia los kuaj cov neeg uas raug quab yuam deev.
• Kom tus me nyuam soj ntsuam tam sim ntawd lossis hauv 2 rau 3 hnub uas nrhiav pom qhov raug quab yuam. Cov cim ntawm kev tsim txom kev sib daj sib deev tsis kav ntev, thiab tus kws kho mob yuav tsis tuaj yeem qhia yog tias koj tos ntev.

Thaum lub sijhawm kuaj mob, tus kws zov me nyuam yuav:

• Saib rau lub cim ntawm kev tsim txom lub cev thiab kev sib deev. Tus kws kho mob yuav kuaj xyuas tus menyuam lub qhov ncauj, caj pas, qhov quav, thiab chaw mos lossis chaw mos.
• Ua kev soj ntsuam ntshav seb puas muaj kab mob sib kis los ntawm kev sib deev thiab cev xeeb tub.
• Yees duab ntawm kev raug mob, yog tias xav tau.

Coj tus menyuam mus rau kev khomob uas xav tau. Kuj tau txais kev qhuab ntuas mob hlwb rau tus menyuam. Pawg txhawb nqa uas tuaj yeem pab muaj xws li:

• Childhelp - www.childhelp.org
• Kev Tsim Txom, Kev Tsim Txom & Kev Ua Tuav Hauv Tebchaws Network - www.rainn.org

Paub tias cov kws muab kev pab, cov kws qhia ntawv, thiab cov neeg saib xyuas menyuam yaus raug txoj cai yuav tsum qhia txog kev quab yuam deev. Yog pom tias muaj kev tsim txom tsis zoo, lub koom haum tiv thaiv menyuam yaus thiab tub ceev xwm yuav tshawb nrhiav. Tus menyuam yuav tsum raug tiv thaiv los ntawm kev raug tsim txom. Tej zaum tus me nyuam yuav raug muab tso nrog niam txiv uas tsis raug kev tsim txom, lwm tus neeg txheeb ze, lossis nyob hauv tsev tu me nyuam.

Kev ua plees ua yi - menyuam yaus

Carrasco HLI, Wolford JE. Kev tsim txom me nyuam thiab kev tsis saib xyuas. Hauv: Zitelli, BJ, McIntire SC, Nowalk AJ, eds. Zitelli thiab Davis 'Atlas ntawm Kev Kuaj Mob Kuaj MobCov. 7 tus ed. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier Saunders; 2018: chap 6.

Marcdante KJ, Kliegman RM. Kev tsim txom me nyuam thiab kev tsis saib xyuas. Hauv: Marcdante KJ, Kliegman RM, eds. Nelson Cov Ntawv Tseem Ceeb ntawm PediatricsCov. 20 tus ed. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier; 2019: chap 22.

Meskas Lub Chaw Haujlwm Saib Xyuas Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv thiab Tib Neeg lub vev xaib. Rooj Ntaub Ntawv Qhia Txog Menyuam Noj Qab Nyob Zoo Rooj vag. Txheeb xyuas kev quab yuam deev. www.childwelfare.gov/topics/can/identifying/sex-abuse. Nkag mus xyuas Lub Kaum Ib Hlis 15, 2018.

• Raug Luag Ntxub Me Nyuam