Muaj ib qho laj thawj yog vim li cas peb nyiam nyem rau tag nrho cov khoom hauv Is Taws Nem

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Hauv Is Taws Nem tso cai rau koj siv zog saib tej yam uas koj yuav tsis tuaj yeem pom IRL, zoo li Taj Mahal, qub Rachel McAdams audition daim kab xev, lossis tus menyuam mos ua si nrog hedgehog. Tom qab ntawd muaj cov duab koj tsis nrawm qhia rau ntawm Faceook-qhov mob kis, tawg paj tawg, pob txha tawg ua rau tawv nqaij ... Ew! Thiab tseem peb cia li nias.

Txheeb xyuas yam tsis txaus ntseeg hauv is taws nem tuaj yeem ua rau koj xav tsis zoo, ntxhov siab, txaj muag ... thiab zoo siab heev. Yuav ua li cas rau qhov no impulse? Muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws meej rau qhov kev ua no, cov kws tshaj lij hais tias, nrog rau qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev lom neeg. Cov lus piav qhia yuav ua rau koj xav zoo me ntsis txog koj qhov browser keeb kwm.

Muab piv rau kev zoo siab, tu siab, ntshai, thiab npau taws, kev qias neeg ua rau pom lig lig hauv tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob, hais tias Alexander J.Skolnick, Ph.D., tus pab xibfwb qhia txog kev puas siab ntsws ntawm Saint Joseph's University. Nws hais tias "Ib puag ncig muaj hnub nyoog ob xyoos, cov niam txiv siv kev qias neeg thaum tus menyuam tau mus kawm chav dej," "Lawv yuav hais tias, 'Tsis txhob ua si nrog koj cov poop, tsis txhob kov nws, nws yog tag nrho.'" Tib lub tswv yim txaj muag yog siv rau peeing hauv lawv daim pawm, muab zaub mov rau hauv lawv cov plaub hau, sim noj av, thiab ntau ntxiv (Xws li, noj zaub mov tom qab koj tso tseg. Hais txog, nrhiav seb Kev Tshawb Fawb Tau Hais Txog Txoj Cai 5-thib Ob.)

"Lub tswv yim evolutionary yog, dab tsi ua haujlwm ntawm kev ntxub ntxaug? Nws ua rau peb muaj kev nyab xeeb," Skolnick hais ntxiv. "Cov zaub mov tsis zoo muaj qab zib, iab, thiab qhov ntawd yog cue rau peb. Peb ntuav nws tawm." Qhov coj txawv txawv thiab tsw ntxhiab tiv thaiv koj los ntawm kev noj cov kab mob uas yuav ua rau koj mob. Cov duab lossis cov yeeb yaj kiab ntawm qhov txhab ua rau lub hom phiaj zoo sib xws. Skolnick feem ntau ncaws tawm ib qho ntawm nws cov chav kawm txog kev puas siab puas ntsws los ntawm kev txhawb cov tub ntxhais kawm kom tsis txhob Google duab tshawb "recluse kab laug sab tom" - txawm li cas los xij, tau kawg, lawv ua, thiab koj yuav tam sim no. "Qee lub sij hawm peb tau qias neeg thaum peb pom ib tus neeg muaj pob liab liab los yog qhov txhab. Peb tsis xav sawv ntawm lawv ib sab. Qhov qias neeg ntawd ua rau peb nyab xeeb los ntawm cov kab mob sib kis."

Yog li yog tias qhov no piav qhia vim li cas peb xav tau kev ntxub ntxaug, vim li cas peb ua nyiam txaj muag (koj paub tias koj tau nyem ua si ntawm tsawg kawg ib qho yeeb yaj kiab uas ua rau cov yeeb yaj kiab uas tau tshwm sim ntawm koj li Facebook pub)? Clark McCauley, Ph.D., xibfwb txog kev xav ntawm Bryn Mawr College, muaj qee lub tswv yim. Nws hais tias "Nws zoo ib yam li vim li cas tib neeg thiaj mus rau cov menyuam coasters. Koj xav tias ntshai, txawm tias koj paub tias koj nyob nyab xeeb," nws hais. "Koj tau txais txiaj ntsig zoo ntawm lawv." Yog lawm, kev xav ntawm lub cev tsis yog hais txog kev sib deev; xav txog txhua yam kev ua ub no uas ua rau koj ua tsis taus pa thiab lub plawv sib tw. "Arousal muaj qhov ua tau zoo, raws li nws tsoo qhov khoom plig no," nws piav qhia. (Uas piav qhia txhua Qhov Vim Li Cas Koj Nyiam Chaw Ua Si.)

Skolnick tseem sib piv Googling cov khoom tag nrho los saib cov yeeb yaj kiab txaus ntshai. Tag nrho cov ntsiab lus yog freak koj tus kheej tawm hauv kev tswj hwm tag nrho, kev nyab xeeb ib puag ncig-koj yeej tsis tau tiag tiag nyob rau hauv txaus ntshai. Internet, tau kawg, ua rau nws muaj kev nyab xeeb dua-txhua yam koj yuav tsum ua yog kaw tawm ntawm lub qhov rais thiab qhov txaus ntshai ploj mus. Ntxiv rau, tsis muaj leej twg xav paub tias koj tau xaiv los saib ua ntej, muab koj txhuam koj li keeb kwm browser.

Peb tsis yog txhua tus neeg nrhiav kev ntshai, lossis xav tsis thoob rau qhov teeb meem ntawd. Skolnick ntseeg tias qhov xav tau no rau Google kuj tseem tuaj yeem ua rau tib neeg xav paub tiag tiag. Nws tau hais tias "Peb xav paub dab tsi tag nrho nyob ntawd, dab tsi phem heev nyob ntawd," Thaum nws los txog rau khib poj niam txiv neej fetishes, "koj tsis xav tau saib Cov kev ua plees ua yi, koj tsuas yog xav paub dab tsi nyob ntawd, "Skolnick piav qhia.

Yog tias koj tseem muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog ib tiam dhau los ntawm cov kab mob kis thiab cov duab liab qab txawv, so kom ntseeg tau tias internet yuav yog qhov tshiab, tab sis qhov xav tau tag nrho cov khoom tsis yog. McCauley hais tias "Tib neeg tsis ua phem ntau dua," "Lawv tsis txawv, tab sis lawv txoj kev nkag tau yog." Yog li txawm tias koj tab tom xav txog kev nyeem cov dab neeg txaus ntshai ntawm Reddit, paub tias koj tus pog yawg yuav raug xa mus rau tib txoj kev. Qhov sib txawv tsuas yog koj paub kom 'meej keeb kwm' tom qab koj nyiam

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