Cuckolding yog dab tsi, thiab vim li cas tib neeg thiaj li tig los ntawm Nws?

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Cuckolding, thaum nws tsis zoo li paub zoo los yog tham txog, yog qhov tseeb ib qho kev npau suav ntawm cov khub niam txiv. Hauv kev tshawb nrhiav rau nws phau ntawv Qhia rau kuv seb koj xav li cas, Justin J. Lehmiller, Ph.D., tau tshawb fawb 4,175 Asmeskas thiab pom tias 26 feem pua ​​​​ntawm cov poj niam nyiam sib deev, 52 feem pua ​​​​ntawm cov txiv neej sib deev, 42 feem pua ​​​​ntawm cov poj niam tsis nyiam sib deev, thiab 66 feem pua ​​​​ntawm cov txiv neej tsis nyiam sib deev tau xav txog cuckolding. Muaj txawm tias tag nrho cov subreddits ntawm Reddit mob siab rau r/cuckoldcommunity, r/cuckholdstories, thiab txawm tias r/cuckoldpsychology txhua nrog kaum tawm txhiab tus tswv cuab.

Tab sis cuckolding txhais li cas, raws nraim?

Ntawm no, cov lus teb rau tag nrho koj cov lus nug cuckolding (ntxiv rau qee qhov koj yuav tsis paub txawm tias koj muaj) thiab cov lus qhia yuav ua li cas sib txuas lus txog cuckolding nrog koj tus khub (s).

Zaum rov qab, so kom txaus, thiab cia koj tus kheej tshawb nrhiav qhov muaj peev xwm ntawm kev lom zem kev sib deev tshiab.

Cuckolding yog dab tsi? Ib Zaj Lus Qhia Ceev

Cov keeb kwm ntawm cuckolding tuaj yeem nyuaj me ntsis - tab sis qhov tseeb yog vim li cas, raws li tus kws qhia kev sib deev thiab kws kho mob kev sib raug zoo, Kuv mob siab rau kev qhia ntawv, ua txhaum kev ntxub ntxaug, thiab txhawb kom tib neeg puag lawv uas lawv yog leej twg. (Txawm tias qhov chaw ntawm koj uas koj tseem tsis tau paub txog!)

TBH, Kuv tsis yog tus kiv cua ntawm is taws nem lub ntsiab txhais ntawm cuckold. Tab sis, rau lub hom phiaj ntawm keeb kwm thiab txuas ntxiv mus rhuav tshem heteronormitve stereotypes hauv peb lub neej, cia peb tham txog nws.

Raws li Merriam-Webster, ib tug cuckold yog ib tug txiv neej uas nws tus poj niam tsis ncaj ncees. Tus poj niam ntawm tus txiv uas deev luag poj luag txiv yog tus cuckquean.

Piv txwv li: Hauv Hamilton, tom qab nws pom tias Alexander Hamilton nws tus kheej tau pw nrog lwm tus poj niam, nws tus txiv tau sau ntawv rau Hamilton hais tias "uh oh, koj ua qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm sucker ib tug cuckold."

Tau ntau xyoo (ua tsaug qhov zoo), lub sij hawm cuckolding tau hloov pauv los txhais qee yam ntxiv raws cov kab ntawm fetish lossis kink uas tus neeg (feem ntau hu ua "tus cuck") tau qhib los ntawm lawv tus khub (feem ntau hu ua "tus cuckoldress" ) sib deev nrog lwm tus (feem ntau hu ua "tus nyuj"). Hauv ntau qhov xwm txheej, lub cuck yog qhib tshwj xeeb los ntawm saib lawv tus khub sib deev nrog lwm tus.

Tau kawg, zoo li ntau lwm lo lus hauv lub ntiaj teb ntawm kev sib deev, qhov tseeb txhais tau yog nyob ntawm txhua nkawm niam txiv kev txhais lus thiab txhua tus neeg zoo siab pom zoo rau (tej zaum tom qab muaj kev sib tham ntev txog qib kev nplij siab).

Tam sim no, koj tuaj yeem xam phaj ob peb khub niam txiv uas txhua tus koom nrog cuckolding thiab lawv txhua tus tuaj yeem muaj lub tswv yim sib txawv ntawm qhov cuckolding txhais tau li cas rau lawv-qhov ntawd yog khawv koob ntawm kev sib txuas lus, sim, thiab lub ntiaj teb kev hloov pauv ntawm kev sib deev!

Yog vim li cas tib neeg nyob rau hauv Cuckolding

Yog tias koj tsis tau hnov ​​​​txog cuckolding los yog tsis tau ua kev lom zem rau lub tswv yim ntawm kev sim nws, koj yuav xav tsis thoob vim li cas ntau tus khub niam txiv pom nws tau ntxim hlub heev.

Rau ntau tus neeg, lub tswv yim ntawm kev saib lawv tus khub ua tej yam ntxim hlub nrog lwm tus neeg yog qhov txaus siab heev. Cia kuv pleev xim koj daim duab: Koj tau pw ua ke nrog koj tus khub tsis tu ncua thiab pom tseeb, qhov ntawd kub heev! Tab sis, tsis tshua muaj koj tau pom tias nws zoo li cas los ntawm lwm cov ces kaum thiab lawv zoo li cas thaum sib deev. Kuv txhais tau tias, nws yog porn nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm koj lub ntsej muag, thiab koj tus khub yog lub hnub qub. (Related: Yuav Ua Li Cas Thiaj Muaj Kev Muaj Tseeb Porn cuam tshuam rau kev sib deev thiab kev sib raug zoo?)

Rau qee tus neeg uas nyiam voyeurism (nyiam saib cov neeg sib deev), saib tiag tiag tsuas yog zoo li zoo li tau ua hauv qhov kev ua (tej zaum tseem ntau dua). Thiab rau cov uas yog cov neeg ua yeeb yam (cov uas nyiam sib deev ua ntej ntawm lwm tus), qhov no kuj yog txoj hauv kev lom zem los tshawb nrhiav qhov ntawd.

Ntxiv rau, tseem tuaj yeem muaj qee qhov kev sib deev muaj zog ntawm kev ua si hauv qhov xwm txheej cuckold. Feem ntau, tus nyuj nyob hauv lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb dua, tsim kev tshwm sim lossis xwm txheej uas ob leeg lossis ib tus ntawm lwm tus neeg tuaj yeem ua raws.

Nyob ntawm tus poj niam txiv neej ntawm cov neeg koom nrog, cuckolding kuj tuaj yeem yog txoj hauv kev zoo los tshawb nrhiav koj kev sib deev thaum tseem nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo uas twb muaj lawm. Qhov tseeb lom zem: Ntau dua 12,000 tus neeg tshawb hauv Google rau "ob cuckold" txhua lub hlis. (Related: Bisexuality txhais li cas, Tsis Txhais, thiab Yuav Paub Li Cas Yog Koj Bis)

Thiab rau qee tus neeg, kev txaj muag cuckold yog lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb; qhov tseeb, lub tswv yim ntawm kev dag (pom zoo) ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo thiab ua kom poob ntsej muag uas tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev cuam tshuam loj heev. Kev txaj muag yog qhov ua rau muaj kev npau suav ntau thiab ze tus txheeb ze rau kev ua si tseem ceeb.

Cuckolding yog qhov tseem ceeb hauv lub thawv uas muaj ntau qhov sib txawv zoo siab tuaj yeem tshwm sim: kev sib piv (kev ua ntawm kev muaj kev xyiv fab ntawm koj tus khub kev txaus siab thiab kev loj hlob), kev khib (uas tsis tas yuav yog qhov phem), ua tiav kev npau suav, ua si lub zog - xwm txheej tsis muaj qhov kawg.

Yuav Ua Li Cas Pib Nrog Cuckolding

Tam sim no, uas koj tau kawm txog cuckolding, koj pib li cas? (Yog tias koj thiab koj tus khub nyiam ua sim.)

Kuv thawj qhov kev xav yog tham. Qhov no tej zaum yuav zoo mloog, tab sis cia kuv piav qhia.

Ua ntej, tham txog dab tsi txhua tus ntawm koj pom tau ntxim hlub txog lub tswv yim ntawm cuckolding thiab vim li cas. Tom qab ntawd piav qhia meej txog lub luag haujlwm uas txhua tus neeg yuav koom nrog yog tias/thaum lub cuckolding yuav tshwm sim. Txoj kev no koj ob leeg nyob rau tib nplooj ntawv thiab tuaj yeem pib xav txog tib yam kev npau suav.

Tom qab ntawd, coj nws mus rau hauv chav pw - tab sis ib yam li koj ob leeg. Thaum koj muaj kev sib deev, tham sexy ua ke txog qhov yuav tshwm sim tam sim no yog tias koj nyob hauv qhov xwm txheej cuckolding. Cia txhua tus qhia seb lawv yuav ua dab tsi, lawv xav kom lawv tus khub ua, thiab tus thib peb yuav ua li cas. Koj kuj tseem xav txog saib qee qhov kev coj ncaj ncees cuckolding porn kom tau txais comfier nrog lub tswv yim thiab saib seb nws tuaj yeem ua si li cas. (Ntxiv ntawm no: Yuav Ua Li Cas Kom Noj Qab Haus Huv Threesome)

Qhov no tseem ceeb vim tias nws ua rau nws muaj tiag tiag thiab nws tso cai rau koj los ua qhov kev npau suav no ua ke ua ntej dhia mus rau ib yam dab tsi.

Tom qab ntawd, pib saib! Muaj ntau ntau yam kev sib deev-nrog apps uas cov khub niam txiv siv tau los nrhiav tus thib peb tus hlub los koom nrog kev lom zem. Hashtag Qhib tso cai rau khub niam txiv los ua qhov profile txog lawv tus kheej, lawv tab tom nrhiav rau dab tsi, thiab lawv nyiam nyob rau qhov twg ntawm kev npaj. Qhov no ua kom ntseeg tau tias tib neeg tuaj yeem nqaim lawv tshawb nrhiav kom pom qhov raug cai pom zoo cov tib neeg rau kev lom zem cuckolding. Xav yog lwm qhov kev sib deev-zoo app rau cov khub niam txiv thiab cov neeg nyob ib leeg tab tom nrhiav "hnub hnub dhau qhov kev cai."

Ib lo lus rau cov neeg txawj ntse: Tsis txhob "xav tsis thoob" leej twg nrog cuckolding (los yog txhua yam kev sib deev rau qhov teeb meem). Yog tias ib tug neeg pom zoo nrog koj deev tab sis koj tab tom npaj coj lawv mus tsev rau koj tus khub ... qhov ntawd tsis yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws. Kev ncaj ncees, kev sib txuas lus tshaj, thiab kev npaj yog xav tau rau feem ntau kev sib deev kev paub - thiab ntseeg kuv, nws ua rau lub sij hawm tau ntxim hlub zoo dua thaum nws tsis muaj kev txhawj xeeb thiab txhua tus ciam teb / txwv tau tawm hauv qhov qhib! (Muaj feem cuam tshuam: Yuav Ua Li Cas Ciam Ciam Nrog Ib Tus Neeg Hauv Koj Lub Neej)

Pub dawb, Tau ntxim hlub heev!

Yog tias muaj ib yam dab tsi kiag li koj tshem ntawm qhov no, cia nws yog: sib tham, sib tham, sib tham. Kev sib deev yog qhov nyuaj, tab sis nws tuaj yeem nyuaj (thiab muaj kev lom zem ntau dua) yog tias koj nqa txhua qhov kev cia siab thiab ciam teb rau hauv qhov qhib kom txhua tus neeg koom nrog pom lawv. Tom qab ntawd, mus muaj kev lom zem cuckolding.

Rachel Wright, M.A., L.M.F.T., (nws/nws) yog tus kws kho mob uas muaj ntawv tso cai, tus kws qhia kev sib deev, thiab tus kws tshaj lij kev sib raug zoo nyob hauv New York City.Nws yog ib tug neeg txawj hais lus, pab neeg pab tswv yim, thiab sau ntawv. Nws tau ua haujlwm nrog ntau txhiab tus tib neeg thoob ntiaj teb los pab lawv qw tsawg dua thiab ntsia hlau ntau dua.

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